No Contact Period

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Posted by flyingdentist
8/26/2018 2:55 am
#1

Hi! My ex and I broke up in August 4, and we kept in touch, bec he wanted to keep talking. But before I found this forum and the other The Secret forum, I read about the 21-30 days no contact period, so I insisted to my ex that we shouldn't communicate, for me to move on. Is it really important to not have contact? I read that it is, so the bad feelings and negative experiences that caused the break up will no longer be associated with me. 

What are your thoughts? Although I am trying to visualize and manifest that he would initiate contact, and tell me that he realized that he wants to work things out. I am also new to this, so help from you wonderful people would be greatly appreciated. Because there are times, esp when I have just woken up, and I feel bad bec my ex and I are broken up. That I no longer wake up to messages from him. What can I do about that?

I just started the 25-day challenge today, as I have only learned about it last night.

 
Posted by Stacey
9/04/2018 4:47 pm
#2

Hello there! I've moved this thread to a better location so it can be seen by other users. 

The whole no contact thing isn't something you have to follow in order to manifest. It's a suggestion for people who constantly contact their ex/specific person. 
To manifest contact, you just picture open and free communication. You can even send yourself a pretend text and pretend it's from the person you desire. The key is to picture the end goal. 
 


It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It. 
 
Posted by erin22
10/10/2018 2:31 am
#3

hi, how long will this no contact period takes? I'm hiding all his accounts, including instagram's stories too

 
Posted by PrettyFlamingo
10/10/2018 12:16 pm
#4

erin22 wrote:

hi, how long will this no contact period takes? I'm hiding all his accounts, including instagram's stories too

And what else are you doing whilst in "no contact"?


Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 


 
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