I think you may have misunderstood me. My question about stalking was more to do with the wrong word than your actions, which are fine. Finding out about someone, which you did, isn't stalking. Stalking is a criminal offence, at least here in the UK, and very broadly is constant unwanted attention from a person you've made clear you want to leave you alone. As a victim of stalking I can testify it's no joking matter. The word is bandied about on forums too easily.
So, for me also to clarify, I was not criticising you. Hence the emoji after my comment. There's a big difference between stalking a person and normal curiosity about a person who you fancy!
My question about adding on Facebook, by the way, was simply because I didn't understand.
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