Sure, I would just find the feeling you would have if you were in contact with him. Visualize texting back and forth with him at least once a day. Don’t notice his absence.

When you say you stalked him what you really mean is that you did some detective work and found out about him don't you? 😉

He must have sent you a friend request, not just "added" you on Facebook; I didn't think that possible? How did he know who you were to find you?

It's a good example of possibilities though isn't it?

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fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

He must have sent you a friend request, not just "added" you on Facebook; I didn't think that possible?

Adding someone on Facebook and sending them a friend request mean the same thing

I read it as simply adding them without the friend request. 

I think you may have misunderstood me. My question about stalking was more to do with the wrong word than your actions, which are fine. Finding out about someone, which you did, isn't stalking. Stalking is a criminal offence, at least here in the UK, and very broadly is constant unwanted attention from a person you've made clear you want to leave you alone. As a victim of stalking I can testify it's no joking matter. The word is bandied about on forums too easily.

So, for me also to clarify, I was not criticising you. Hence the emoji after my comment. There's a big difference between stalking a person and normal curiosity about a person who you fancy!

My question about adding on Facebook, by the way, was simply because I didn't understand.

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