Whenever someone expresses sadness or anger about not manifesting his specific person, all I hear is that he has been feeling lack. If he weren't feeling lack, there would be no negative emotion. From my experience, when it all clicks and you're able to properly apply the principles, the specific person sort of becomes irrelevant. It's such an empowering feeling because you realize that what you were looking for was always within yourself. Trust me... you KNOW when it happens. Annnnd this is when the specific person and/or someone better always comes to you. NEVER fail.