I just wanted to say, after feeling heartbroken for about two months because my person replaced me with someone else, after continuously creeping/stalking his social media, worrying about the replacement girl, over analyzing every detail, feeling sorry for myself, obsessing over getting him back and thinking to myself where did it all go wrong... I finally stopped
I found a true love for reading books.. I've always been a book reader when I was a kid and then stopped for some reason. In the past week I read three books and It gives me so much life and excitement. I just finished The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho and it's such a such a beautiful little book (highly recommend!). I'm also starting a new gym routine and felt super good and strong after my workout today. I'm enjoying this time with family.
For those of you struggling, please find something that gives you joy. I was stressed at first and couldn't focus for long but after practicing and reading more pages every night, I gained inner calmness. Try a new book, workout, bake a holiday recipe, reconnect with an old friend, LIVE YOUR LIFE. You are your own source of happiness. You deserve someone who treats you like the queen that you are.
This is a random post but just felt like sharing . Please feel free to message me if you ever need to talk to someone! I'm always happy to listen to anyone.