Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Specific person- being friends with them HELP

**Posted by dizzy_dreamer_sidney** 9/10/2017 10:09 pm

I find myself in a tricky situation sometimes because im friends with the boy who i want to date. I often hear no contact is the way to go but i feel like i cant in this situation because we share friends. I talk to his best friend (who likes me, i accidentkly attted that by worring and focusing on what i dont want and BOOM ) eveyday. I work with his ex-girlfriend, who is my friend (it wasnt a bad break up and it was a longggggg time ago). I just sometimes feel like this is all so tricky. I have a few guys who are interested in me so i must be doing something right, but i just feel a bit confused. If im acting as though i have him, i wouldnt be talking or flirting with anyone else, correct? Or do i not act as if?

On a positive note my visualizations are getting better!

thanks for all your help and love

xoxo- Sid

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 9/11/2017 2:54 am

No contact isn't always to be taken literally. In many cases it's advocated after a bad break up or similar when you need to heal and get yourself together and give them time to think, miss you or whatever. If you're in the same social circle and it doesn't upset you then carry on going out with this crowd. You don't have to avoid the guy, but do avoid being soppy around him. Just be your happy positive self.

**Posted by dizzy_dreamer_sidney** 9/11/2017 10:53 am

I used to be romantic with this person, will not being sappy make him think im no longer interested?

Thank you!