Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Alignment help? Maybe?

**Posted by IlunaMeisu** 8/20/2017 7:24 am

There was this one guy that really got my attention don't know why.

Any tips on reattracting this person again, I know it's still there but would love to see him again, thanks.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 8/20/2017 8:41 am

I find this hard to answer because it is so vague and I am a very practical person. I'm not one for just think about it, visualise and it's going to happen. Every time something has happened for me I have had to do practical things. So we know nothing about this guy, how you know him, where you saw him/see him around or not, if you get the opportunity to see him or interact with him. What do you mean by "reattract"? Have you been out with him, or just seen him around and you don't see him around anymore? Or you do and he doesn't interact with you? How is this about "alignment"?

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**Posted by Lifesagas** 8/20/2017 9:21 am

I'm with PF. We need a bit more info.

**Posted by IlunaMeisu** 8/20/2017 9:52 am

Right, been using dating apps and we matched, spoke and went out on date and now it's all silent went I thought it went very Well. From everyday chatting to silence, trying to keep busy and keep dating others but this person is on my mind alot.

But when I saw him on the dating app, for some reason I felt the impulse.

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**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 8/20/2017 11:58 am

You know I'm going to ask an obvious question. As I said in my earlier post I'm practical. If I'd been chatting with someone (friend or potential romantic interest) and this happened I'd ask why. I'm straightforward and what you see is what you get. Similarly if I were the other person and had gone on a date with someone and realised it wasn't going to be romantic but I liked them as a friend, or indeed if I didn't want to see them again at all I'd tell them that too.

I think the danger with a lot of law of attraction ideas is people are afraid to be pragmatic and practical.

If this is the phenomenon known as ghosting then it's pathetic for someone to behave like that and shows weakness in their character. I contacted a guy from my past who had vanished, chatty update and then asking him to let me know how he was as I'd like to stay in touch but if he didn't want to, to let me know that too. Two months later and nothing. You're just left to infer from their behaviour what the situation is and it drives me up the wall.

**Posted by Avaelle** 8/20/2017 12:57 pm

I hate when this happens to people. Especially when you think things went well.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 8/20/2017 2:39 pm

Avaelle wrote:
I hate when this happens to people. Especially when you think things went well.

It makes me SO cross. Guys need to man up and be honest.

**Posted by Lifesagas** 8/20/2017 2:59 pm

Not LOA advice but if he's 'ghosted' you then he's not very nice and not worthy of your time really.

**Posted by Avaelle** 8/21/2017 7:44 am

PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
I hate when this happens to people. Especially when you think things went well.
It makes me SO cross. Guys need to man up and be honest.

It burns me up reading about it. I imagine that everyone involved is an adult. If you receive a text or call etc, reply. If you don't want to move in the same direction as another person, let them know. I truly don't understand why there is such a large amount of people that find it alright to ghost.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 8/21/2017 10:02 am

Avaelle: They do it because they are immature.