I'm with PF. We need a bit more info.

You know I'm going to ask an obvious question. As I said in my earlier post I'm practical. If I'd been chatting with someone (friend or potential romantic interest) and this happened I'd ask why. I'm straightforward and what you see is what you get. Similarly if I were the other person and had gone on a date with someone and realised it wasn't going to be romantic but I liked them as a friend, or indeed if I didn't want to see them again at all I'd tell them that too.

I think the danger with a lot of law of attraction ideas is people are afraid to be pragmatic and practical.

If this is the phenomenon known as ghosting then it's pathetic for someone to behave like that and shows weakness in their character. I contacted a guy from my past who had vanished, chatty update and then asking him to let me know how he was as I'd like to stay in touch but if he didn't want to, to let me know that too. Two months later and nothing. You're just left to infer from their behaviour what the situation is and it drives me up the wall.

Avaelle wrote:

I hate when this happens to people. Especially when you think things went well.

It makes me SO cross. Guys need to man up and be honest. 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

I hate when this happens to people. Especially when you think things went well.

It makes me SO cross. Guys need to man up and be honest. 

It burns me up reading about it. I imagine that everyone involved is an adult.  If you receive a text or call etc, reply.  If you don't want to move in the same direction as another person, let them know.  I truly don't understand why there is such a large amount of people that find it alright to ghost.