Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Letting go and acting as if are both impossible together

**Posted by Bernadet** 6/29/2017 7:46 am

Hi, I am a bit confused about Letting go and acting as if. Both seems counter intuitive to me. How can I apply both at the same time? Can you shed some light? Suppose I act as if he is already in my life and at the same time I let go and say, it's OK, I don't need him, let universe take it's own time... It shows lack. Right?

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**Posted by Stacey** 6/29/2017 8:57 am

Letting something go from a LOA standpoint is releasing any fears, doubts and the need to control the situation. Also as contradictory as it sounds you do have to be okay with the idea of not being with the person but that's more along the lines of being at peace with fear.

**Posted by AnythingIsPossible** 6/29/2017 9:50 am

To me, 'letting go' means letting go of the "how is it going to happen", "when is it going to happen", "where is it going to happen", "why hasn't it happened" etc. I keep the desire alive within me and 'live in the end' when it feels natural and fun. Also, I do a lot of reflecting on my self and my mental state. I make sure to affirm that he (or anyone else for that matter) isn't my oxygen. My peace, love and happiness comes from within myself. That's part of my 'letting go' routine as well.

**Posted by Stacey** 6/29/2017 5:59 pm

AnythingIsPossible wrote:
To me, 'letting go' means letting go of the "how is it going to happen", "when is it going to happen", "where is it going to happen", "why hasn't it happened" etc. I keep the desire alive within me and 'live in the end' when it feels natural and fun. Also, I do a lot of reflecting on my self and my mental state. I make sure to affirm that he (or anyone else for that matter) isn't my oxygen. My peace, love and happiness comes from within myself. That's part of my 'letting go' routine as well.

That's a wonderful way of putting it, I might have to borrow some of your ideas here.

**Posted by jerseygirl** 7/01/2017 10:18 am

Hi - Do any of you discuss this process (using the LOA to attract back an ex) with your friends/family or is it something better to keep within yourself

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**Posted by Suzy** 7/01/2017 3:55 pm

Better to keep to yourself if they are not educated about LOA.

**Posted by LearningToDetach** 7/01/2017 9:37 pm

jerseygirl wrote:
Hi - Do any of you discuss this process (using the LOA to attract back an ex) with your friends/family or is it something better to keep within yourself

Keep it. Theydont believe it. They'll just say all the thibgs you dont wanna hear

**Posted by jerseygirl** 7/01/2017 9:46 pm

thanks