Okay so I get two more Indians here ....great!! Count me in! Surbhi,,,,,,,well firstly see getting an independent thread gets u so many wonderful advices right?? Thats superb!! Few things, you were initially in NC right If i am not mistaken? I saw a post where u said he texted u or something like that? Am I right? so thats a wonderful sign, you know what, many of us got this forum after a nasty break up...having NC etc...where we are trying to get a text or a call. U are in touch, u meet him, connected thru work etc....thats a great thing, be thankful for that!!!! Half the job is already done. Noe, can u just stop forgetting about his GF or his little interest in you??? Can u just be ok with the fact THAT U LOVE HIM, thats it!!! Being a good friend is no less....work on that, be his support system, appreciate him, just give your all,,,and dont expect anything. Work on him through your subconscious mind. He is already yours there. You have a wonderful occassion coming, marriage in India is a huge thing, take the chance, dance , sing, make your self attractive but dont give all your attention to him. Just focus on the fact that he is there and he will come when the universe wants. Till then, just work on yourself. I have a guy in my life since 3 years and we are best of friends, I initially had a crush on him but hes way too good for me so I just stuck as his friend and today he's head over heels with me. Its me who had to tell him, that I dont feel that way. Time and patience. But that does not mean u dont meet other guys. Go ahead. Do everything that makes u happy, SHIFT THE FOCUS from HIM to YOU.....I hope u enjoy the marriage. You must!!! Rock it girl.