briana1231 wrote:
InnerGod wrote:
briana1231 wrote:
And see, the problem with me is that when I open my messaging app I get anxious as to if he's texted me or not. I don't know if that's good or bad.
I know this feeling, I used to feel this way.
Do this: everytime you open your app, expect that he texted you, whoever have texted you, you don't care, SEE his text in your mind. Pretend you're receiving it, everytime your phone rings. The trick here is stop making comparisons between the two realities. Just receive as many texts in your mind, everytime it rings, so your mind will get used to this feeling and it will find no more reason to get anxious.
Wait, but doesn't that add lack or disappointment when you see it's not them?
Only when you hope for it to happen, then you look at reality and it didn't happen, then of course it reinforces lack. But that isn't the way you use LoA in your favour. InnerGod's excerise is a good one, if you can manage to really do it the way he told you to do it. It's about being oblivious to reality and not comparing your imagination to your reality.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise