What worked for me all 3times was basically, believe, do that and your off on a winning streak. I always believed she was my soul mate and we belonged together. I forgot the world and focused on me and my missus. I said affirmations often and said them with conviction. I wrote, religiously about my relationship with my missus, all I loved and appreciate about her, how madly in love with one another we are and that we are literally magnetized to each other. I visualized often, holding hands, kissing, listening to her say I love you... I stayed off social media. I only ever had Facebook but I came off it. I have a phone and numbers, if I wanted to speak to ppl I rang or text. Social media can be a big discouragement to people, without realizing it. So stay off it, I refuse to go on it.
Sex is one. I have a huge sex drive but if anything that helps, masturbation. Basically when I would get chatted up, I would make it clear that I have a woman. I would get offers off women for a quick one or whatever but I stuck to my guns and stayed celibate believing my girl is the only one I'll ever sleep with. So stay away from other potential offers, hence masturbation.
For anyone who is annoyed or hurt or angry... at their love for something then first thing before you even begin to try to bring them back is forgive. What me so long this timtooke was forgiveness, if I had forgiven her in the start we'd of been back together for months now. If you wanna know how to forgive, watch bob proctor on law of forgiveness but also study law of vibration (the primary law).
Now this ISN'T guaranteed way to get your love back, it's only what worked for me!!