Cherished wrote:

Love5278 wrote:

Cherished wrote:

To address this point of "did it happen..."  It obviously happened.  And you realise that you have been creating a reality you don't want.  So, as Giver said- at this stage you need that contrast so that you can further clarify what you DO want.. to be able to create an even better reality!  So it's important initially to acknowledge what you've miscreated. See how your own thoughts bought this story literally to life,  and take a grand old bow😊👏🏼

NOW. At this point, you're in a reality you don't want, and you've identified and clarified the NEW reality that you DO want. So NOW, you drop that old reality from existence. Erase. Delete. Gone. NOW, it ceases to exist. Because as you advance forward- shifting in to another reality, does that old story assist you in any way? Does bringing forth that anger, resentment and fear create a wonderful new reality? NO! It creates more of the same old drama. It keeps you stuck. So why carry it forward? Hell to the NOOOO! That reality ceases to exist!

I know it seems ridiculous. I get that. But truly, if you can delete the old stuff from your mind, your manifestations will come fast! And if you can be the "bigger" person and not NEED the apology, or the acknowledgement that you are a poor victim.. if you can RISE above all of that, you will end up with exactly the reality you are trying to fight so hard for! I'm telling you emphatically, please drop the past. Use it to propel you forward into further clarify, and then DELETE the bad experiences. You think you want an apology. But what you ACTUALLY want is a harmonious relationship with that person again. And you will obtain that the MINUTE you forgive and forget, and send them only love instead. Promise. Forgiveness is a miracle worker.

How were you able to just completely let go of the past and all the obstacles ? This is something I'm trying to get rid of .. I can be happy and know I will get my friends and love back for a couple of days and then boom I start to doubt because I don't see anything happening ... How do you keep yourself strong and ignore the reality how can I pretend I have my love and friends back ? ... When I look at my phone and see no messages it's breaks my heart because I want a breakthrough

 
It's just something you have to practice. It takes diligence. And focus!

Yes I've been trying for so long I feel like I'm doing something wrong lol I want to see my results and success now