So just wanted to give an update of everything. I've been off for a few days because I've been out of town for my birthday weekend. Please read to the end, seems negative, BUT it's not.

Well, the day before my birthday (Friday) when I left out of town I texted my guy and told him that I hoped he had a wonderful day at work. He texted back and asked where I was. I told him I was out of town getting ready to drive to the mountains and then he asked when I'd be back and I said I'd be back today (Sunday) and he texted back "Grrrrr ok...." and then nothing else the rest of that day. Well that night I kept kind of having short visualizations that he was going to text me on my birthday. Well lo and behold he did! He said "Happy Birthday!!!" and we had small talk throughout that day. Since it was his last day before moving back home, I asked if he was leaving my town right away and he said "yeah". This didn't bother me and I was still happy. I told him that I'm sure I'd see him again sometime but if not I had a wonderful time hanging with him and I really hoped he enjoyed his new job. Well he texted back and said he's sure we will see each other again and then said "maybe we can meet occasionally and have fun". I'm sure he meant that in a sexual way, but then I thought about it and was like "well who would want to drive 3 hours for sex, just to drive 3 hours back?" I know I wouldn't, but who knows?! Lol! 

But anyways that conversation continued on and it got flirty and sexual and he said "no worries, we're meeting up soon". And then he just sizzled out! Now I'm NOT being negative nancy on this, I'm still happy and content (surprisingly), BUT I'm wondering if he's still with his gf. Both their Facebooks are deactivated and his Instagram is private. I sent him a request last week after seeing he followed me on Instagram, but he hasn't approved it yet. And the time it took us texting back and forth on my birthday before he sizzled out is the same amount of time it would've taken him to drive home. Before when we first started talking again we would text non stop and then his days off would come around in which he usually went home and the conversations would just stop until he came back to work and then they'd start up again. YES, I know to stop analyzing and I'm working on that and I know not to look on Social Media and I'm working on that too. BUT I'm not unhappy with all of this. At all actually. I'm still happy and positive and grateful and still doing my visualizations.

Also, something else happened today. A guy I dated back in August-September texted me today and said he wanted to talk to me if it was no problem. I said yeah. Well he apologized to me for just dropping off the face of the earth and said that he was having some issues and doesn't trust easily, but he knows he can trust me and is happy he met me and is trying to get his life back on track and would be honored if I was in it. He then said he'd like to start over with me and try again. Some back story with him: we dated in the time me and my guy weren't speaking back in August. We hit it off. Or so I thought. We hung out a few times and he even took me on a date for dinner and a movie and we had a deep conversation about how we loved being around each other. And then he just disappeared on me. Didn't text, didn't call, didn't return my texts. So I just left it alone and went on with my life. We started talking again a few weeks back but nothing meaningful. And now this, lol. So I think I'm in that "vibe" and it's only a matter of time until me and my guy are official and I'm on here telling my success story!!!

You're doing everything right From what I have read I agree you are definitely on your way to it being official with your guy. He is obviously very keen to want to drive a 6 hour round trip to see you. keep visualising your interactions  being meaningful and it will be. Your vibe must be high because other ex's from the past always seem to pop up out of nowhere when we feel like this. 

Last edited by Cheer (11/30/2015 12:08 pm)