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- Cherished
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The Batman wrote:
Just wanted to add that it is easier to stay on track than to veer off once you get into the swing of things. This entire day I was focused in my desired reality and synchronicities started popping up like nobody's business. Sure, you'll get the odd "Hey, wait a minute!" moment, occasionally, but it'll gently pass. You won't get anything if you don't trust, so you might as well engage fully. Just do it, folks! Haha.
Exactly! So true. It is so much easier to keep focussing than to indulge in an all-out hopeless tantrum session 😊💜 TRUST ME 🙋
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Cheer
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I try not to post anything negative on here, this is a one off. I will be honest now.
My situation is not an ex but I'm dealing with Hot and Cold guy, I did manifest him back after months of no contact, so I'm grateful for that. When I did bring him back into my life, it was 50:50 of positive/negative feelings.
At the moment this is how it is, when he's texting a lot and being nice, I feel great! but when he becomes distant I feel awful. I have recently had an interaction with him face to face , where I said al the wrong things and he's gone distant again. I'm trying my best to refocus and change my energy.
- Alikhy09
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@Cheer, I'm not dealing with an ex either. We were never in a relationship, but we hung out and I fell head over heels in love with him. I asked him last month if he felt anything for me when we were first hanging out before and he said he did but didn't know why I didn't tell him my feelings then. We had a disagreement and my feelings were hurt and I was all negative and low and we didn't talk for a month or so and he got a gf in that time. And then I started practicing the LOA and managed to attract him back because HE contacted me first. Of course I got excited and happy, but I think I became "attached" because of all the excitement and I was trying harder and harder and becoming more desperate this time around and I think that energy didn't help much. So I'm refocusing and just taking it day by day.
But I feel the same way. When we're talking I feel awesome! But when I don't hear from him in a while, I get sad. But then as more time goes by after not hearing from him I sort of get "ok" with it, but then he will text me or something and I get that good feeling of course and I'm happy but I think I send a vibe out to the universe of desperateness again lol. I'm working at it though!
- Cheer
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Alikhy09 - Yep I'm with you on this one 
I know the mistake of relying on him for my happiness, that's what I'm working on. I came across very needy when I last saw him.
So working on happiness and confidence on my own and he just compliments the happiness. Now I keep visualising him totally into me and missing me.
- Alikhy09
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I agree. Veronica says not to reach out to them. Let them come to us. I'm learning that. He's took notice of my distancing myself because the last time we saw each other last week after close to 3 weeks of no contact he kept asking why I hadn't spoken to him in that long. And then he said he thought I was distancing myself so he just left it alone. He even remembered how long it had been since we last spoke. I take that as a good thing but then I'm like well what the heck?! He notices I'm not reaching out to him and he wonders why, so why doesn't he reach out to me? I even told him that he had my number. Like as a joke. So maybe the universe is seeing it like I'm relying on him to make me happy and is ensuring I am strong on my own. I dunno, lol.
- Cheer
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He sounds just like my guy , that's the sort of thing he would say lol.
I don't really get it, but you're right. We are strong on our own. I am never going to reach out to him either while he is being like this. It's a great sign that he does notice when you have become distant. Same in my situation.
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- Alikhy09
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Yeah, I take it as a good thing that they notice the distance, but it's like "hello! you have my number, text me if you notice!" rofl! But everything happens for a reason and the universe knows how to work it's magic, even in times like this!
- DJ_Reeses
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I will say that for the past few weeks, I have been WAAAAY more confident and detaching much easier. I trust the universe to bring him back to me. Our love is real and we will be together soon, I just know it! However, I cannot say that I am completely free of doubts. Me and my love are still close friends and talk often. However, he is dating someone new and there are times when he will mention her, or I will see something on social media, and it brings me down.
It won't bring me down hard, as I am getting really good at ignoring the current reality, but the thoughts can be persistent or very intrusive, and since my brain has a tenancy to overthink, it will start to bring up things or focus on things I DEFINITELY do not want it to focus on. This can leave me struggling for a few minutes or longer to reclaim my composure, and throughout the day I will get random flashes of the bad thoughts, but I can usually get my mind back on track.
- Hisoneandonly
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2 or 3 days.
- Blessedck
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Thank you! I had a dream this morning that he texted me and said "I know you want us to be US, together..." I dunno what I said to him but he sent another one that said "I love you babe
That's awesome!!
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