This forum is hosted for free by Boardhost. Create your own free forum!
1 - Bellecat
- Warrior
Offline 
- From: Australia
- Registered: 6/27/2015
- Posts: 298
Hurt
I was kind of with a guy for six months yet not in a relationship and three months he sent me a text saying he's struggling big time with his anxiety and depression and he hopes I'm happy because I deserve to be. I haven't heard from him since that text and I am 99% certain he walked straight past me in the shopping centre yesterday, he had a hat on.... I wonder why
I am so hurt over this!!! I just want to bawl my eyes out. How can I fix this.
- Bellecat
- Warrior
Offline
- From: Australia
- Registered: 6/27/2015
- Posts: 298
Re: Hurt
Sam wrote:
Why are you sad?? You saw him! That's a sign my dear!
He ignored me 
- •
Thread Starter- Cheer
- Superhero
Offline
- Registered: 9/23/2015
- Posts: 247
Re: Hurt
Sam is right. Don't be discouraged. The same thing happened to me and I cried, I thought it was terrible until I spoke to Veronica who put me back on track. It is a positive sign although it doesn't feel like that. I am now in communication with him since this incident happened to me 5/6 weeks ago.
- Bellecat
- Warrior
Offline
- From: Australia
- Registered: 6/27/2015
- Posts: 298
Re: Hurt
I'm not 100% sure it was him (I know, how can I not know)
He's online on the dating website I miss him so much, I don't know how to get him back in my life wanting me 100% forgetting the ex who hurt him
- •
Thread Starter- Cheer
- Superhero
Offline
- Registered: 9/23/2015
- Posts: 247
Re: Hurt
So you're not 100% sure, but you're 99 % sure, that's very sure!
Don't think about the online dating website, don't even look at it, if it makes you feel unhappy, I wouldn't put any energy on it. Stay positive, nice happy thoughts about him being crazy about you and only you. LOA does work. Every time I use it properly It works for me, but when the negativity hits me, it can sometimes go wrong, but It does change back again when I get rid of the negativity. Keep those good thoughts and keep visualising what you want.
Last edited by Cheer (11/23/2015 4:11 am)
- Jenny
- Superhero
Offline
- Registered: 10/28/2015
- Posts: 201
Re: Hurt
I'm not 100% sure it was him (I know, how can I not know)
He's online on the dating website
Honey, don't worry, let him discover by himself that out there,
there's no one as beautiful, as great and as perfect for him as you are!! 😊
PLEASE CORRECT ME IF I MAKE A GRAMMATICAL MISTAKE! I'm still learning;)
- Allgood
- Superhero
Offline
- From: Kilkenny, Ireland
- Registered: 11/07/2015
- Posts: 228
Re: Hurt
I'm not 100% sure it was him (I know, how can I not know)
He's online on the dating websiteHoney, don't worry, let him discover by himself that out there,
there's no one as beautiful, as great and as perfect for him as you are!! 😊
That's a beautiful and important factor to keep reminding ourselves.
Well said Jenny xxx
- Cheer
- Superhero
Offline
- Registered: 9/23/2015
- Posts: 247
Re: Hurt
I'm not 100% sure it was him (I know, how can I not know)
He's online on the dating websiteHoney, don't worry, let him discover by himself that out there,
there's no one as beautiful, as great and as perfect for him as you are!! 😊
Yes completely agree with this.
And thought I would mention, when I said about being very sure you saw him, I meant in the best possible way. It is a great sign, like it was for me in the end! X
Last edited by Cheer (11/23/2015 5:34 am)
- rosetinted
- Warrior
Offline
- From: United Kingdom
- Registered: 11/18/2015
- Posts: 279
Re: Hurt
It's been a few months since the fight and separation with my guy. He saw me once and ignored me, (well panicked and left) and I saw him once (and panicked and left!) but he keeps ending up at gigs and parties really near me. We have the same friend big group so could just be that.
But for me and from what Veronica said to me about it, you've attracted him near you in any way! From him popping up on social media, to seeing his name, to seeing him around or even lookalikes.
Something happened yesterday which devastated me (a friend posted a pic of them all out together right near my home) I cried for hoursssssss and have basically written that friend off at this point. But maybe it's a sign he was so near and keeps appearing.. Maybe maybe! 🍀
- Unveiled Miracles
- Superhero
Offline
- From: Boulder
- Registered: 6/27/2015
- Posts: 161
Re: Hurt
What are you really hurt over? Remember, you have the power to steer your emotions in the direction that will help you or hurt you. When we choose to be hurt we are choosing our emotions to go against our desires. Instead, how can you channel that emotion into excitement for your creation? Do whatever it takes to get yourself in a good place. Get excited that you saw him in person! You manifested being in the same place at the same time as him. Maybe he didn’t see you. Do not assume for the worst, always assume for the best. Remember, if you have the core belief that everything is working in your favor…then you have to trust that EVERYTHING is working in your favor! Stay positive and take good care of yourself. You deserve the best!
Julie-LOA and Happiness Coach
The entire Universe lives inside of you, why play small?
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com