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Blessedck · 11/21/2015 3:07 pm

I'm so glad I'm in a happier mood and I know I'll marry my guy.

During this process of waiting for him to contact me, am I supposed to be expecting that he could contact me any day now. Or just not think about him contacting me and rather just focus on other things and let the universe surprise me? Anything else?

I'm very confident that everything is working out because I'm internally changing myself.

Thanks!

Jenny · 11/21/2015 3:29 pm

Yes! Now you need to let go or detache

Detachment is about being okay with things continuing as they are. It’s about making peace with what is, with yourself, with what you want, and with never getting what you want.

When you can be okay with never having your desire fulfilled, your fear will be gone.

Detachment doesn’t mean resigning yourself to not having what you want.
It isn’t about giving up. It’s about accepting what is…accepting your life and situation as it is now and being okay with it…but still being willing to allow yourself to have what you want – still allowing yourself to experience that feeling of hope that it will occur.

Blessedck · 11/21/2015 5:31 pm

Jenny wrote:
Yes! Now you need to let go or detache

Detachment is about being okay with things continuing as they are. It’s about making peace with what is, with yourself, with what you want, and with never getting what you want.

When you can be okay with never having your desire fulfilled, your fear will be gone.

Detachment doesn’t mean resigning yourself to not having what you want.
It isn’t about giving up. It’s about accepting what is…accepting your life and situation as it is now and being okay with it…but still being willing to allow yourself to have what you want – still allowing yourself to experience that feeling of hope that it will occur.

Thanks Jenny. I'm a bit confused as to why should I be okay with not ever getting m my desire when I know that the universe is working on making it happen?

The rest of your explanation makes sense. Thank you!

barbidoll · 11/21/2015 5:42 pm

Jenny that is a great explanation ! That is where I struggle the most when I want I want ugh but you are absolutely correct I have manifested things I would like but wont die if I don't have easily that is the hardest thing to learn not to care so much or at least not make it the center of your world and everything in it Thank you

Jenny · 11/21/2015 6:01 pm

Blessedck wrote:
Jenny wrote:
Yes! Now you need to let go or detache

Detachment is about being okay with things continuing as they are. It’s about making peace with what is, with yourself, with what you want, and with never getting what you want.

When you can be okay with never having your desire fulfilled, your fear will be gone.

Detachment doesn’t mean resigning yourself to not having what you want.
It isn’t about giving up. It’s about accepting what is…accepting your life and situation as it is now and being okay with it…but still being willing to allow yourself to have what you want – still allowing yourself to experience that feeling of hope that it will occur.
Thanks Jenny. I'm a bit confused as to why should I be okay with not ever getting m my desire when I know that the universe is working on making it happen?

The rest of your explanation makes sense. Thank you!

Because you need to be happy now! And now you don't have him.

But you know you will have him. And that's wonderful! You are in the right way

Jenny · 11/21/2015 6:02 pm

barbidoll wrote:
Jenny that is a great explanation ! That is where I struggle the most when I want I want ugh but you are absolutely correct I have manifested things I would like but wont die if I don't have easily that is the hardest thing to learn not to care so much or at least not make it the center of your world and everything in it Thank you

Because you need to be happy with yourself right now to manifest.

Blessedck · 11/21/2015 6:28 pm

Jenny wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
Jenny wrote:
Yes! Now you need to let go or detache

Detachment is about being okay with things continuing as they are. It’s about making peace with what is, with yourself, with what you want, and with never getting what you want.

When you can be okay with never having your desire fulfilled, your fear will be gone.

Detachment doesn’t mean resigning yourself to not having what you want.
It isn’t about giving up. It’s about accepting what is…accepting your life and situation as it is now and being okay with it…but still being willing to allow yourself to have what you want – still allowing yourself to experience that feeling of hope that it will occur.
Thanks Jenny. I'm a bit confused as to why should I be okay with not ever getting m my desire when I know that the universe is working on making it happen?

The rest of your explanation makes sense. Thank you!
Because you need to be happy now! And now you don't have him.

But you know you will have him. And that's wonderful! You are in the right way

Thanks Jenny!!

Blessedck · 11/21/2015 6:36 pm

Debbie wrote:
Well you know, Blessedck, I'm no expert, but whenever this has happened to me, there has never been a sign or contact when I have been waiting for it to happen, or watching for it. I think that in every single case, things have happened when I have let go and not expected something to happen.

So what I think you need to do is to get on with something that occupies your mind for a time. Anything that you enjoy will do, but do it in a way so that you aren't constantly checking or waiting for something to happen. It just won't happen if you are waitng for it to happen. I would say do your RS, your visualizing, and whatever else you use to attract him back, but then after that go and get on with something else. Go spring clean the house, go shopping with a friend, go to the movies, or whatever. He will make contact when you are least expecting it and you will laugh to yourself when he does and say "omg I was just casually checking my phone/email/FB and suddenly I found this message from him! I really wasn't expecting that at all!" Lol. It is always that way for me. Always.

Thanks Debbie! Basically, I should know he will contact me but don't look for it. Rather enjoy life and he will just pop up out of nowhere?

This sounds easy!

Alikhy09 · 11/21/2015 7:30 pm

Yes, try and focus on yourself and being busy so you're not so concerned with him contacting you. Just know the time will come and place that unwavering faith and 100% trust in the universe and just KNOW your love is coming.

Blessedck · 11/21/2015 8:25 pm

Alikhy09 wrote:
Yes, try and focus on yourself and being busy so you're not so concerned with him contacting you. Just know the time will come and place that unwavering faith and 100% trust in the universe and just KNOW your love is coming.

Good point! I'm not worried that he won't contact me but I think quite a few times a day that "omg he's going to marry me!"

So I'll just tell myself it's good to be excited and things will happen at the right time?

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