thanks for the link yeah i've learned to not be obsessive and chase after her by just going with the flow and letting things happen naturally when there ready. it's just the doubt of if it's still possible to be with this person after the whole restraining  order warning  how bad it got like has the damage already been too big to save or once i fully accept the past is the past and just focus on the end result me and my crush could end up together at the perfect time.

i've already watched the first video and fully appreciate and understand where your coming from and been putting all the teachings to practice and in a really good place and mindset.  just trying to get a bit of insight on whether theirs a limit to when things can be so messed up between your crush that it's unlikely to work out or by just going with the flow and going about practicing the teachings and self love and even tho it got to the whole restraining order warning 6 months ago doesn't matter as any anything is possible. Sorry if i offended you as i said just trying to get a little insight here.

steve201 wrote:

i've already watched the first video and fully appreciate and understand where your coming from and been putting all the teachings to practice and in a really good place and mindset.  just trying to get a bit of insight on whether theirs a limit to when things can be so messed up between your crush that it's unlikely to work out or by just going with the flow and going about practicing the teachings and self love and even tho it got to the whole restraining order warning 6 months ago doesn't matter as any anything is possible. Sorry if i offended you as i said just trying to get a little insight here.

 
No, things are not too messed up, only if you believe them to be. Leave the girl alone, and do what Neville says. People who have followed his advice have had what seem like miraculous results in all sorts of ways. All you have to do to see that is to read The Law and the Promise, which contains letters people wrote to him, and I recommend that you read it if you haven't already done so.

steve201 wrote:

thanks for the reply and those vids in the link have really inspired me and given me somethings to improve on. Plan to spent an hour a day watching more of his videos and that book sounds like it may help and  will up date everyone    

 
Good. Keep in mind that it can take time, persistence, and patience to get results. I have seen so many people come here and try something maybe a time or two, if that, and if they don't get instant results, they give up and go looking for something else, and then something else when that doesn't give them instant results. People who do that end up getting nowhere. Neville's methods do work and get results when done properly, which includes the above - persistence, patience, and also faith.