How do I get my girlfriend in an LDR to wanna spend more time with me, and talk to me all the time. She says she tries to make time for us, and she will for a short time then she goes distant, and says shes really busy. I just want her to make me a priority and make an effort. After all, I am her girlfriend, and I should matter to her. I get upset and worried about her when I don't hear from her, or she doesn't do what she says. Any advice on how to manifest her to keep her word and to make me feel important and that I matter. I wanna manifest messages from her all the time too effortlessly and without struggling. 

My girlfriend can send me multiple messages throughout the day, and then there's times she only messages once or twice a day. Then there's a few times I don't hear from her in a 24 hr period. She's in the military and her job keeps her busy in the middle east, and I understand that. I haven't been in a relationship in over 3 years prior and it wasn't an LDR like this one is. I also know not everyone is busy every second of the day, and that it only takes a couple of minutes to send a message. That people make time for who they want. I feel like I have to manifest a message from her when I wanna hear from her, and if I am not thinking about getting a message from her or manifesting it, it doesn't happen. I know Veronica tells us to ask, believe, and receive, and not to get fixated on getting these messages but I have anxiety and I end up assuming the worst. I don't wanna jump to conclusions or think negatively either. Most importantly, I don't wanna hurt my girlfriend by getting upset with her, and losing my temper and hurting her bc I am not getting from her what I need/want. I want our relationship to be fun, loving, passionate, peaceful, and harmonious. I am trying to be patient and understanding as well. I know when I wanna hear from my girlfriend. I do affirmations or try to get her to think about me in my head and connect with her mentally. Like she gets an urge to message me. Sometimes it works, but when it doesn't i get sad bc i ask the universe why it's so hard to receive what I am simply asking for bc the LOA and manifesting should be simple. It's like whether I try hard to focus on something or back away and let go. I still get disappointed when I don't get messages from my girlfriend. I am stuck and wondering if I should just give up on my girlfriend and just not care, which is sad that I even have to think like that, but I want our relationship to be perfect in every way possible. I just don't know what I am doing right or wrong. If someone on here could give me advice and reach out to me I would appreciate it so much. I am new to the LOA and trying to find the things that work best for me to manifest but I am stuck.