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I remember Veronica saying, anything that happens can be the universe getting your desire ready. For example instead of me thinking my love and I not talking every day is a negative, it can be a positive because one of the reasons we brokeup is because I became too dependent on her and talking every day. So this could be the universes way of saying. Your desire is on your way, but you have to be ready to not talk every day
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Dan2015 wrote:
I remember Veronica saying, anything that happens can be the universe getting your desire ready. For example instead of me thinking my love and I not talking every day is a negative, it can be a positive because one of the reasons we brokeup is because I became too dependent on her and talking every day. So this could be the universes way of saying. Your desire is on your way, but you have to be ready to not talk every day
βΊ that's right!
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Exactly. Don't overthink it. If she doesn't text you, have the attitude "oh well, she will later" and find other things to focus on or keep yourself busy. Just go with the flow and relax. It's when you get yourself worked up over things that those negative thoughts start creeping up. Just tell yourself "she's absolutely crazy about me" with a smile on your face and move on. She'll text you later on, so no worries right now!
-Dan
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DCS82 wrote:
Exactly. Don't overthink it. If she doesn't text you, have the attitude "oh well, she will later" and find other things to focus on or keep yourself busy. Just go with the flow and relax. It's when you get yourself worked up over things that those negative thoughts start creeping up. Just tell yourself "she's absolutely crazy about me" with a smile on your face and move on. She'll text you later on, so no worries right now!
-Dan
Extra same thing I have been saying to Dan2015
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Dan2015 wrote:
I remember Veronica saying, anything that happens can be the universe getting your desire ready. For example instead of me thinking my love and I not talking every day is a negative, it can be a positive because one of the reasons we brokeup is because I became too dependent on her and talking every day. So this could be the universes way of saying. Your desire is on your way, but you have to be ready to not talk every day
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I'm sorry that I don't really understand this, can you explain it more to me?
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Dan2015 wrote:
I remember Veronica saying, anything that happens can be the universe getting your desire ready. For example instead of me thinking my love and I not talking every day is a negative, it can be a positive because one of the reasons we brokeup is because I became too dependent on her and talking every day. So this could be the universes way of saying. Your desire is on your way, but you have to be ready to not talk every day
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I'm sorry that I don't really understand this, can you explain it more to me?
Which part?
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I saw another post on a different forum where this girl said when they are involved with someone else think like, "That other woman is only a tool for my love to realize I am the one for him. The other woman cannot replace me and my love only loves me, not her." What do you guys think about this?
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Well, I have mixed feelings about her. My anxiety sees her as a threat. My heart is not worried and sees her as an experience for him to realize we have something better.
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Wow, Dan, this is a great way of looking at the no contact situation. I'm going through a bit of impatience with not talking to my love. I saw him briefly at work this last week, but we haven't really spoken in 2 weeks. But like you said, maybe this is the universe saying "hey, you're not gonna talk everyday when you're in a relationship with him and you have to be ok with that before I am going to give you your desire" lol.Β