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Jui, please don't get down on yourself. Please! That's the worse thing you can do. I know it's hard when you see the person you love with someone else, even if its just a friend or whatever, but what you need to do is stay happy! Know in your head that this man loves you and wants you and only you and thats the end of it. Write positive affirmations and read them aloud EVERY day! Do what I did, I went on YouTube and found positive affirmation subliminal videos and I listened to them before sleep and I would wake up feeling great! Look into it, it works!
I made the mistake when I first started LOA of "stalking" my guys social media and it only made me feel bad. So I stopped. DO NOT look at ANY of his Social Media accounts. Either unfriend or unfollow him if he's on your Facebook. And DO NOT look at it. No matter how tempting, don't stalk his social media accounts. And don't worry about that other girl. At all. Make it so that in your head she is non-existent. Eventually she will be and that will be a step closer to your love. Just love YOU first. And we are here for you.
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barbidoll wrote:
your moods are swinging from high to low because you are still fragile you just like almost everyone on this forum wants love either back or new but we are all seeking love and that is our primary objective so naturally when something we see as negative is in front of us we dive emotionally and bring back the flood of negativity no one can maintain positive vibrations constantly it takes a very long time to master your emotions but you can do it pretty much everyone on this forum is learning the same lessons Hang tough honey just remember if it feels bad to look at it see it or hear it avoid it at least for now until you have your feet under you more securely
Well said
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I am working as you people have advice @ all good ..
it's like I am not able to maintain positive vibes always .. for eg today I was happy but then the snap story appeared and in no minute I turned out to b totally negative .. idk how but just in few seconds my good mood .. good thoughts everything vanishes in a second .. I do listens to vedios and I was very firm on being on that 25days challenge but sometime idk why I turn out to be so low I just go in depression and sometime I m all egar and suppa confident of he coming
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barbidoll wrote:
your moods are swinging from high to low because you are still fragile you just like almost everyone on this forum wants love either back or new but we are all seeking love and that is our primary objective so naturally when something we see as negative is in front of us we dive emotionally and bring back the flood of negativity no one can maintain positive vibrations constantly it takes a very long time to master your emotions but you can do it pretty much everyone on this forum is learning the same lessons Hang tough honey just remember if it feels bad to look at it see it or hear it avoid it at least for now until you have your feet under you more securely
Thankyou barbie ♡
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Jui, I just want to give you a big hug.
Well lots of people here have given you some good advice and I can't add to that. But please do take that advice and have faith that it will get you what you want in life.
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I love you all ! in numbers the universe will help us help each other I know when I hit a low you all will help me up
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barbidoll wrote:
I love you all ! in numbers the universe will help us help each other I know when I hit a low you all will help me up
That's right barbie! We're all in this together! Hugs! We're like a family
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Hi jui, I think I attracted this post for me to see
1 and a half hour ago, the exact same situation happened to me. I swear. No lies. It hit right to my face. I was happy for these days, he stopped posting he and that girl a few days ago and I started to believe that he might feels that he loves me so he stopped seeing other girls. But it hit right to my face, when I saw the snap just now. But please, don't get me wrong, I'm not here to tell you how negative I am or giving you more negative energy, I just wanted to tell you that, we're fighting for the same thing, we're warriors, these are illusions. We can manifest our desire , these were just the past thought you had. You're creating a new ones now
well, it took me 30 minutes to get myself back to positive state. It's really hard. Tell yourself you accept what is happening now but this aren't what you want. Take a DEEEP breath and be HAPPY! BECAUSE!! You will get what you want soon! We're in this together Jui! Hugs! I hope I can see you in person right now and hug you instead. We can do this! You're not alone, we'll have them back in our arms very very soon!
Lots of love! XOXO ♡
I'm extremely proud of you as I read this post. Well done 🌈💜
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Cherished wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Hi jui, I think I attracted this post for me to see
1 and a half hour ago, the exact same situation happened to me. I swear. No lies. It hit right to my face. I was happy for these days, he stopped posting he and that girl a few days ago and I started to believe that he might feels that he loves me so he stopped seeing other girls. But it hit right to my face, when I saw the snap just now. But please, don't get me wrong, I'm not here to tell you how negative I am or giving you more negative energy, I just wanted to tell you that, we're fighting for the same thing, we're warriors, these are illusions. We can manifest our desire , these were just the past thought you had. You're creating a new ones now
well, it took me 30 minutes to get myself back to positive state. It's really hard. Tell yourself you accept what is happening now but this aren't what you want. Take a DEEEP breath and be HAPPY! BECAUSE!! You will get what you want soon! We're in this together Jui! Hugs! I hope I can see you in person right now and hug you instead. We can do this! You're not alone, we'll have them back in our arms very very soon!
Lots of love! XOXO ♡
I'm extremely proud of you as I read this post. Well done 🌈💜
Hi cherished, it's been weeks although I haven't see any results yet but things will change soon! I'll soon write my success story! Thank you cherished! ♡
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I understand utter despair. Been there, it feels awful. But you have the absolute ability and tools to use your mind to turn it around fast. I hope you can step back and really reflect on the fact that NO other person or circumstance is worth killing yourself over. That is a gross misjudgement, and a fine indicator that you have not yet come to understand the incredible being you actually are. You are far, far more than just a physical human who wants a particular partner. You are a magnificent, deliberate creator. You are here on this earth to use your wonderful body and all of your delicious senses to experience a magical journey of colour and fun and adventure and love. LOVE. It has to start with love for YOURSELF. And that comes through appreciation. Looking around your immediate vicinity and grasping onto SOMETHING to appreciate. It becomes easier with time, because we have a world positively FULL of wonder and beauty all around us. And we have LOA to help us at each abd every turn should we wish to use it wisely.
Know that we are here for you. But most importantly, try to remember who you ACTUALLY ARE. You are a beautiful deliberate creator, with the extraordinary ability to carve out precisely what you want. Anything. Everything. So catch up on some sleep, and then awaken ready to find yourself. The true, authentic YOU. There's far too much magic here for you to go yet. Your journey has only just begun, so stay with us and play a whole lot longer. 💜
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