P.s. the synchronicities are bizarre as well! the new guy is born Brazil- i met my ex the day before he left for a work trip there (he was back and forth for 6 months). I am in North America, so this is crazy because they were from the same city. The new guy and his ex broke up the same week me and my ex. his father passed away, when I met my ex, his father has just passed about a year prior... The new guys birthday is the date of my 1st official date with my ex when he came back from Brazil the first time. SO there are plenty ofreminders of him, while getting to know this new man, but I also feel happy and joyful when I talk to him and those didn't even bother me.
It's when I am alone and get these signs, it is where I start to really get frusrated... 

Thank you! I totally keep trying to!
But maybe I am not over him. Or subconsciously I still want all the things I listed but with him ... these signs shouldn’t bother me at all if I were over him?

Thanks for your input though! I will continued to try and be grateful. I do say to myself all the time “I love my life. I love my friends etc etc” my affirmations come so natural.
*sigh*

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I think you'll find most people will tell you signs mean what you think they mean. I don't have much of a view on signs but you're telling us you got over the ex, and everything else ie work, fitness, social life and finances improved  - sounds like you're living the dream; many people would kill for all of that, particularly those who are not in a good place, so it's good to hear things worked out for you.

Turn it all around, think of what you can be grateful for - are you sure you're not thinking things are too good to be true? Enjoy what you have and be thankful!

 
I am very thankful! Each day I feel so excited while getting to know each other. I’ve practice some visualization and he says and does exactly what I Pictured! I also affirm that each day I do deserve this and thank you for sending me him! Its when I get these other signs, my vibe changes. I see the signs as the universe saying “so are you sure you want to move on??” - I’m obviously not over my ex if these signs affect me at all I guess? It’s just interesting that it seems like more signs are appearing. Even right after I wrote this, the new guy texted me something that my ex texted me when we first met! As ridiculous as it sounds, it was word for word and I know this because I had messages on my old cellphone And checked! It was too specific to be a Coincidence.

  Lol I know no one has the true answers for me. But if anyone else has experienced this type of situation? I wanted all this with my ex and I believed it would work that way. But if the universe knows better, I’m just trying to enjoy the present. Anyways I appreciate and welcome any input!!!
Thank you!!!