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6/02/2018 2:35 pm  #1


I manifested my ex back but......

Looking for some advice. I manifested my ex back after almost a year. We went from no talking for months to intermittent and now steady. We have even met up twice but talk/text daily for the last month. My problem is that he is still seeing the girl he started seeing when we broke up. My question is what kind of techniques, meditations or affirmations do I do to be first and ONLY in his life? We plan on talking soon about the status of their situation and ours.  She has been spewing their relationship all over FB lately. In the last two months they became FB official and last week she changed her profile pic to one of the two of them. Two days later ( a few days after I met up with him) he changed his to a different pic of the two of them.  

 

6/02/2018 3:07 pm  #2


Re: I manifested my ex back but......

Ignore current reality and live in the end of being in a relationship with him now until it manifests. Also, be sure you do not view this other girl as better than you in any way. If you find that you view her that way, work on your self esteem. This is important so that you will be able to sustain the relationship with him when you get him back.

So you understand what I mean a little bit better about living in the end, I’m going to share advice Cynthia (another user on this forum) gave in another post. It’s valuable and really is a great starting point:

Forget everything else you've heard or read and read and/or listen to Neville Goddard until you actually believe what he's saying about imagination creating reality and about 'living in the end of the wish fulfilled', and then apply it and keep applying it. Be patient and persistent. He will tell you all you need to know. It doesn't need to be difficult, it doesn't need to take a long time, you don't need all sorts of techniques or self love or any of the other things that are so commonly promoted.  Below is a link to his recording of the Secret of Imagining, which takes less than 17 minutes to listen to. Do yourself a favour and listen to it as an introduction to his teachings about conscious creation and then do more studying from there. There is far more to this than getting some 'ex' back. It's about creating all aspects of the life you want to have..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk
 

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6/02/2018 3:14 pm  #3


Re: I manifested my ex back but......

Thank you. We have been sending a lot of pictures back and forth of travel destinations and I see myself with him there. I also visualize me moving in his house and our wedding. I kinda chuckle as if I KNOW we will be together. At work we have someone with his last name. Walking by her the other day someone said "Hi Mrs Smith" and in my head I said "that's me". From the end, from the end, from the end... Got it. Thank you.  

Maybe time for me to do the 25 Day Challenge again? Last time I was in a place of lack while doing it.

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6/02/2018 3:33 pm  #4


Re: I manifested my ex back but......

You’re welcome Yeah, you could do the 25 Day Challenge again if you want to. But, living in the end is all you need.

 

6/02/2018 6:30 pm  #5


Re: I manifested my ex back but......

I would try to see yourself as worth it.  Be proud that you manifested him back, and feel like this is only the beginning.  Yes, it's super frustrating that it all hasn't come together yet - but remember this is a work in progress and you are on your way! I would't necessarily do visualizations to have her be out of the picture, because you want to mostly focus on you and him.  This is all that is necessary.  Also, focus on the idea of being respected! Make this mostly about you.

Wishing you the best.

Veronica xxoo

Amyh24 wrote:

Looking for some advice. I manifested my ex back after almost a year. We went from no talking for months to intermittent and now steady. We have even met up twice but talk/text daily for the last month. My problem is that he is still seeing the girl he started seeing when we broke up. My question is what kind of techniques, meditations or affirmations do I do to be first and ONLY in his life? We plan on talking soon about the status of their situation and ours.  She has been spewing their relationship all over FB lately. In the last two months they became FB official and last week she changed her profile pic to one of the two of them. Two days later ( a few days after I met up with him) he changed his to a different pic of the two of them.  

 


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6/03/2018 3:04 pm  #6


Re: I manifested my ex back but......

Thank you Veronica.... We met last night to talk. He admitted to having feelings for me and an undeniable connection emotionally and sexually. He said that everything was good in his relationship and he doesn't know why we always end up coming back to each other. He said that what we were doing wasn't fair to anyone involved and he didn't want to hurt her or me. I told him that we are the right people, wrong time....again. I did say that we are both in different places in our lives then where we were the last time we were dating and that it is a shame that we aren't exploring how amazing it could be. He agreed.  He also agreed that I was never far from his thoughts this past year....It is frustrating beyond belief and today feeling kinda blah. I know I need to change that and I will.  I am giving myself the day to process everything.... He kept apologizing. I told him that he is in a tough spot and that he has feelings for and loves two woman. He has no valid reason to break up with her other then explore something with me.... I know we will be together but part of me is thinking to just move forward with my life and not do the work towards him and when timing is right, it will happen.

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