Ignore current reality and live in the end of being in a relationship with him now until it manifests. Also, be sure you do not view this other girl as better than you in any way. If you find that you view her that way, work on your self esteem. This is important so that you will be able to sustain the relationship with him when you get him back.

So you understand what I mean a little bit better about living in the end, I’m going to share advice Cynthia (another user on this forum) gave in another post. It’s valuable and really is a great starting point:

Forget everything else you've heard or read and read and/or listen to Neville Goddard until you actually believe what he's saying about imagination creating reality and about 'living in the end of the wish fulfilled', and then apply it and keep applying it. Be patient and persistent. He will tell you all you need to know. It doesn't need to be difficult, it doesn't need to take a long time, you don't need all sorts of techniques or self love or any of the other things that are so commonly promoted.  Below is a link to his recording of the Secret of Imagining, which takes less than 17 minutes to listen to. Do yourself a favour and listen to it as an introduction to his teachings about conscious creation and then do more studying from there. There is far more to this than getting some 'ex' back. It's about creating all aspects of the life you want to have..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk
 

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You’re welcome Yeah, you could do the 25 Day Challenge again if you want to. But, living in the end is all you need.

Thank you Veronica.... We met last night to talk. He admitted to having feelings for me and an undeniable connection emotionally and sexually. He said that everything was good in his relationship and he doesn't know why we always end up coming back to each other. He said that what we were doing wasn't fair to anyone involved and he didn't want to hurt her or me. I told him that we are the right people, wrong time....again. I did say that we are both in different places in our lives then where we were the last time we were dating and that it is a shame that we aren't exploring how amazing it could be. He agreed.  He also agreed that I was never far from his thoughts this past year....It is frustrating beyond belief and today feeling kinda blah. I know I need to change that and I will.  I am giving myself the day to process everything.... He kept apologizing. I told him that he is in a tough spot and that he has feelings for and loves two woman. He has no valid reason to break up with her other then explore something with me.... I know we will be together but part of me is thinking to just move forward with my life and not do the work towards him and when timing is right, it will happen.