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5/27/2018 12:06 pm  #1


What do you focus on?

I am trying to stop focusing on my ex so much. Yes I want to attract him back but I think if I take some of the focus off of him my life will improve.

However I have spent soooo much time focusing on him and worrying about him and the situation and all those kinds of things that now Iโ€™m not sure what to focus on! That may sound kind of crazy but Iโ€™m a person who has to keep myself and my mind pretty busy or I get bored so a great part of my energy has been spent thinking about my ex. Now what do I focus on? I have a lot of good things going on in my life, do I just appreciate those more?

Iโ€™ve been trying to change my attitude about my financial situation around and that has already been improving. I had been feeling kind of broke and within a day of changing my attitude and thoughts I found $50!

Any suggestions? What do you all focus on? I have trained myself to worry and obsess over the negatives so much that Iโ€™m not sure what to do now!

 

5/27/2018 1:01 pm  #2


Re: What do you focus on?

This kind of happened naturally for me. Over time I just became less focused on my โ€œsituationโ€ and more focused on myself. So I canโ€™t tell you for sure how to purposely do it. But definitely take a look at your life and see what you can improve upon. When your own life is interesting to you, you become more engrossed in it.

 

5/27/2018 1:05 pm  #3


Re: What do you focus on?

fizzy wrote:

This kind of happened naturally for me. Over time I just became less focused on my โ€œsituationโ€ and more focused on myself. So I canโ€™t tell you for sure how to purposely do it. But definitely take a look at your life and see what you can improve upon. When your own life is interesting to you, you become more engrossed in it.

I guess thatโ€™s kind of it too, Iโ€™m bored with things. Iโ€™ve become so busy with working, having a home and bills to pay, etc that Iโ€™ve lost a lot of the fun things in my life.

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