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- Genius
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Would it change your mind?
Be honest, whether if your guy/girl was a virgin or not a virgin.. would it change your mind of wanting them, if they had a few sex partners between your breakup and getting back together? or would you not care at all?
- Dezman
- Helper
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Re: Would it change your mind?
Always a hard one. But at the end of the day, you would have to realise that you have no control over what they have done, or whom they had been with. You have control over your feelings and how you would react to the situation.
If you want them back, and your reasons are pure, the fact that they had been with others should not make any difference (even if you waited for them).
Just remember to be true to yourself.
- Tinkerbell
- Superhero
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Re: Would it change your mind?
Honestly, the past is the past, the only important thing is now and the future. There is no need to dwell on past lovers when there is only you NOW.
- Vera
- Warrior
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Re: Would it change your mind?
This is something that you need to ask yourself before you decide to get back with her.
The best kind of love is love without conditions.
- Unveiled Miracles
- Superhero
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- From: Boulder
- Registered: 6/27/2015
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Re: Would it change your mind?
I do not think it matters. We have so much negativity around sexuality. There is so much guilt and shame projected onto sex. Sex is normal, natural and healthy. Focus on who they are in the present moment, not what someone did in the past 
There is enough shame and guilt, we need more healing and acceptance around sex!
Blessings,
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
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