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Here's my dilemma. I already spent a good bit of money on my (ex) boyfriend's Christmas presents. Do I return them and use the money toward other people? Do I keep them? I feel like if I return them it's sending a message that we are over and I don't want him back in my life. But then what if he doesn't come back and the universe has someone better for me and I never returned all the gifts?? Ugh. Help.Β
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Here's my dilemma. I already spent a good bit of money on my (ex) boyfriend's Christmas presents. Do I return them and use the money toward other people? Do I keep them? I feel like if I return them it's sending a message that we are over and I don't want him back in my life. But then what if he doesn't come back and the universe has someone better for me and I never returned all the gifts?? Ugh. Help.Β
I had a similar experience, not Christmas gifts but other ones. I would return the gifts if I were you. I wish I would have done. I don't think it's sending a message to the universe that you're over at all. I fully expect to hear from my man again at some stage and am confident that I will, but I'm planning to try to sell some of the things I bought for him on ebay or somewhere or even perhaps give them away to charity because I don't want to give them to him any more. I did far too much for him as it was.Β He can give to me from now on.
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Last edited by Cynthia (11/23/2017 12:45 pm)