Ok so I told him don't worry about meeting up. Just wanted to make sure you are happy it appears you are everything's working out for you. I ll see you at the surprise party.

Leaving it there and doing nothing . He knows I'm not happy about this but oh well can't take it back now.

Lifesagas wrote:

Stop contacting him. Stop seeing him. Stop devoting any energy to him. You don't have to explain anything to him or tell him anything or ask him anything.

I know you want him but all you say about him and his behaviour makes him sound like an A* manipulative, selfish game playing asshole to be honest and you're so caught up in it that you can't see the wood for the trees.

You deserve more than that.

Like I said I'm not getting what I want I know y'all don't agree but I'm not doing anything anymore

Cynthia wrote:

Lifesagas wrote:

Stop contacting him. Stop seeing him. Stop devoting any energy to him. You don't have to explain anything to him or tell him anything or ask him anything.

I know you want him but all you say about him and his behaviour makes him sound like an A* manipulative, selfish game playing asshole to be honest and you're so caught up in it that you can't see the wood for the trees.

You deserve more than that.

 
I'm sorry, but I have to agree.

Well I know people can change and he can but again the universe has decided for me apparently so I'm doing nothing . People here have had success stories of someone turning around and treating them better.

I don't want anyone else and I m gonna be settling if I do . The universe has decided that for me so I will. I don't want to talk about this anymore

Looks like I'll go back to being hasty to him when I see him at group events ( he called me hasty last week)

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PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Just say hello and leave it at that if you see him socially. You don't owe him anything.

What was the purpose of meeting on Tuesday?

Idk but I cancelled it was a decision made on impulse. The universe has made it clear that no matter what I'm here so anyway.

I'm gonna be honest it's really hard to not feel left out by the universe when I read all these success stories with people even being blocked and here I am we see each other I am a friend on Facebook, he has my phone number and can actively text me etc and I keep getting this . It's like there have been far more impossible situations and yet my guy has basically give hints he is not happy and yet I keep getting this third party...wth universe . I just have to get that out. I deserve my relationship I'm awesome I know I deserve to feel good and the universe doesn't decide for you supposedly. So it's like why is it deciding for me. It's not like he isn't gravitating towards me in some way with how things have been. Like wth I have one of the easiest situations and yet harder ones have this work out .

The universe has decided that I can't have the relationship I want with the guy I want

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