PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

The universe doesn't choose for you, it just responds to what you're putting out. How recent was the breakup? You might still be hurting from it and need some time to recover from it. 

We were together 4 years and then broke up 4 years ago and I managed to get him back but I was desperate then broke up in 2014 . Then in early 2015 heard he was with someone else I discovered loa used it to get him back only got him single and we were friends with benefits for 2 years always I was so close and then nothing . That was my mistake because I didn't do the love part respect myself enough to be in a relationship not that. Anyway in may he gets really close to me backs off and thenstsrts dating this new girl ever since. I have been doing all sorts of things and as of recent really felt living in the now seemed like I was getting signs but I'm just so tired I have waited so long for a success story with me on this...I'm just so tired and I have done what I did the last time this happened and nothing. He did like my profile pic last weekend, he was nice to me and told me that " he and some friends should beat the **** out of the guy who was mean to me on my date" he also called to make sure I got him ok but all our friends do that . So some good things but still I'm just so tired and I just want him to be single at the very least. I stopped doing the rubbing out technique because it did nothing it doesn't work.

Sorry to blow up the messages boards I'm just so stuck and sad and just don't want to feel this way anymore and just feel hopeless. I have been trying to say I surrender and let go and it helps but still. I know holding in bad emotions doesn't help either idk man

I'm getting a sense of deja vu with this story as if I've read it before from a different forum member.

 
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If you feel too tired emotionally and mentally to raise your vibrations I would say that the universe is presenting you with this space so that you can FEEL it, to heal it. You don’t need to do anything, all you need to do is feel all that your feeling. The universe is on your side and sometimes it may seem as if it is choosing for you because you have subconscious beliefs running the show. 

A lot of times when people are going through breakups they forget that we live in an abundant universe. There minds narrow down to see no possibilities, when there are actually infinite possibilities (your ex being one of those!). As much as you can attract your ex back (via self love, visualizations, acting as if, etc), it is important to feel that you have options. This allows relaxation to enter your life and your energy field. When we hyper focus on one thing, we tend to contact our energy and start to feel constricted and tense. When we relax and our our minds to the infinite, we feel soft, open and receptive to all that is (especially to what we really want). You don’t need to have faith in the LOA so much, you need to have faith in YOU. Watching Veronica’s videos, Abraham Hicks, Neville Goddard, etc. can help raise your vibration with out you having to do anything. Being around positive, inspiring and loving people is another way. Walking in nature is a great way to raise your vibes. So there are many things you can do that do not take a lot of effort You got this, we have all been there and I can tell you that in the end, you will have exactly what you desire

Xo, 
Julie: LOA Coach at veronicaisles.com