Thanks guys! I think you're just focusing on the negative parts of what I'm posting. Please look and read once again, that I'm actually trying, though.

I'll post this again...

"I doubt that's the case, however,it certainly helps to think of it that way. I remember one time, when I bought her flowers and she said she didn't want them and to give them to my mom- about the time she said she lost interest in me - things she did showed it too, so do I just ignore the obvious fact that she lost interest in me? I can really try. 

I'm doing better thank you! "

I did say I doubt that's the case because I know she likes her plants, and she likes that store. I'm just stating facts. But I also said it certainly helps to think of it that way - so I will.

I also asked a question, "do I just ignore..." - that was a real question.

I also added in, I'm doing better, thank you! ... BECAUSE I AM DOING BETTER. I might have my negative moments, but you all are focusing on any negative in that post... I wasn't being being negative at all. I agreed that it helps to think of it that way. Even though I know that's not the case, I'll think of it as if it were. And I'd greatly appreciate an answer to my question as well.


Please focus on more than just "I doubt that's the case" - because it's like stating, "X, BUT, Y", (with X being negative, and Y being positive), yet only focusing on X. 

C'mon guys... I appreciate the help, but please stop saying I'm not listening, or that that post was negative, etc. Because I literally stated, I'm fine in that post. Please stop focusing on just one statement, which, by the way, followed with a "however".


SO, that aside, - got it out of the way now - good? Okay. It's behind us. No more talking about it.

I'd like an answer to my question, if anyone would be so kind as to do so. Thank you


I know you're all trying to help, so I really do appreciate it. I am listening though.

I'm happy, let's focus on that - It's been a good day!

Last edited by YesIWILL (4/04/2017 7:33 pm)

Do you just ignore what?   You don't have to totally ignore it, your problem is.   When you think of something you don't like, you have a hard time thinking positively about it.   And you start panicking and getting upset

If you could think about it positively.  and visualize something you like, then I don't think you have to ignore it

YesIWILL wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

Do you just ignore what? You don't have to totally ignore it, your problem is. When you think of something you don't like, you have a hard time thinking positively about it. And you start panicking and getting upset

If you could think about it positively. and visualize something you like, then I don't think you have to ignore it

I guess, do I just ignore the blatant signs of her not being interested in me from before? Like the whole flower thing? And just focus on what I want to happen, as if she never lost interest in me? - I guess that's my question.

Yes.  Focus on what you'd like. Make it like a fantasy.  It might feel silly to you at first, but you see how so many people have used visualization of their fantasy and manifested it into their reality

It seems like you don't listen because you often with replies like "but, what if she doesn't want me?". I know all too well how hard it is living with anxiety and overthinking. I have days where I think someone is mad at me because they have slightly different wording.

The thing with LOA is that it's real and isn't biased, so if you're projecting from a place of lack that's what manifests more. I once got back together with a person who told me he didn't love me and we had a good relationship after that. With these things you need to set an intention and focus only on the things you want, if you give too much attention and energy to the opposite because it's an unbiased thing it'll manifest. It doesn't know good or bad. 

Doubts are natural because it does sound so silly on paper but this stuff actually works. There are too many success stories everywhere for it just to be a coincidence and I doubt every single person would even have the time or energy to carry on something like this for this long. 

I know you don't want to be her friend, which is fine but I'm friends with all my exes and they came back into my life when I forgave them and myself for all that happened. 

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

It seems like you don't listen because you often with replies like "but, what if she doesn't want me?". I know all too well how hard it is living with anxiety and overthinking. I have days where I think someone is mad at me because they have slightly different wording.

The thing with LOA is that it's real and isn't biased, so if you're projecting from a place of lack that's what manifests more. I once got back together with a person who told me he didn't love me and we had a good relationship after that. With these things you need to set an intention and focus only on the things you want, if you give too much attention and energy to the opposite because it's an unbiased thing it'll manifest. It doesn't know good or bad. 

Doubts are natural because it does sound so silly on paper but this stuff actually works. There are too many success stories everywhere for it just to be a coincidence and I doubt every single person would even have the time or energy to carry on something like this for this long. 

I know you don't want to be her friend, which is fine but I'm friends with all my exes and they came back into my life when I forgave them and myself for all that happened. 

Also, to add on people change their minds all the time. My darling at one time swore on his life he would no longer be kind to me if I was playing "games" with him. That has not happened, he was still kind to me and loving. Even today he is still with me, we have been back together for seven months and I still visualize at times and give gratitude towards him. Cuz I have not stopped.