Without sounding rude, I think you are analysing this waaaay too much. Be grateful he is in contact not a lot of people have had contact in months to years! Focus on yourself and your happiness. I know its hard when you first break up you do try and think into everything, but the fact he is making an excuse to see you is a very positive thing! Try Must Spark Joy - get your ex back in 30 days. It will really give you a great insight in the law of attraction and unconditional love. The universe doesn't play games, it responds to your vibrations and thought process! Hope this helped. 

Last edited by Meg2222 (3/23/2017 7:46 am)

Meg2222, thanks for your insight.  I know my situation is a lot better than many people but it is hard when you don't see any progress and you just feel like it's probably time to give up and move on.  It's not like we keep texting each other though, it's like he just text me to 'drop over things' and then maybe a coffee after. Our break up was very civil, and he did say that he wanted to stay friends (he always remain friends with his exes).  But I don't want that.  I unfollowed him on fb or Instagram but he still follows me and even like my photos.  Sometimes I wonder what he wants? I feel like telling him not to come see me again because I was happy but living my life but when I see him, I got emotional again as if we just broke up.  I can't keep feeling like this...that's why I wonder what I should do. I am afraid that if I ask him not to see me anymore, that's it but on the other hand I feel like LOA will be able to find a way...

Sean, yes I feel for you.  Do you feel like you want to just stop seeing her then? Perhaps a 'momentum' like what I want to do can make her realize that she has to make up her mind?

Darling6 wrote:

Meg2222, thanks for your insight. I know my situation is a lot better than many people but it is hard when you don't see any progress and you just feel like it's probably time to give up and move on. It's not like we keep texting each other though, it's like he just text me to 'drop over things' and then maybe a coffee after. Our break up was very civil, and he did say that he wanted to stay friends (he always remain friends with his exes). But I don't want that. I unfollowed him on fb or Instagram but he still follows me and even like my photos. Sometimes I wonder what he wants? I feel like telling him not to come see me again because I was happy but living my life but when I see him, I got emotional again as if we just broke up. I can't keep feeling like this...that's why I wonder what I should do. I am afraid that if I ask him not to see me anymore, that's it but on the other hand I feel like LOA will be able to find a way...

Sean, yes I feel for you. Do you feel like you want to just stop seeing her then? Perhaps a 'momentum' like what I want to do can make her realize that she has to make up her mind?

Yeah I get that, it is very difficult. But I think the best situation is not to give up but just let go, just affirm the universe knows your desire and is bringing it to you in the best possible way. Focusing on yourself will help you detach healthily and remain calm about it. The anxiety sucks and the not knowing is a killer. Have you tried meditating? I feel that really helped me when trying to figure things out. Sometimes this gets all brought up as well because you need to deal with it if that makes sense? Like the anxiety you feel might be blocking you from your desire so you need to deal with it maybe? Perhaps you just need some 'you' time to figure out your feelings? xx

Yes Meg2222, I think I need to let go and that's why I need to stop him from contacting me to just drop off things etc.  I can't move on if I have him on my social media and every time I see something my heart burns - even he was just tagged into a drink with friends.  I do meditation a lot, one in the morning and one at night, and visualize.  I will continue to do this. But for now I need to cut him off and focus in me, and let the universe takes charge.