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Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Colonel Roosevelt wrote:
There's more to 2017 than getting an ex back...more to life than just waiting on a phone call...getting mad about this is like getting mad that you missed breakfast when you still have lunch and dinner lol
Haha yeah I know but in the holiday season it's even harder to be without the special person ^^
And it'll probably get worse around Feb 14th, that's when the sad posts come in fast and furious like Trump's tweets at 3 AM lol, aw yeah gonna get a bag of cheddar potato chips and some pop for that lol
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Hahaha you're awesome XD naaah this won't be that worse for me... I never really got something for valentine so that's okay I'll guess ^^
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MadMoiselle87 wrote:
mave wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
I really hoped for a call from him as he tried to call me yesterday but all I've got was a standard New Years greeting at 11 am this morning ....
it's sooo disappointing because we're in a good daily contact at least I thought that :/Soooooo ungrateful!!! I supposed had you not received any communication at all, you'd be equally bitching!!!
Seems like the only "bad" start to 2017 is your attitude and your perspective.Ouch that was pretty offensive .. I'm not bad I was just sad and missed him that's it... it's just recognizing that we aren't in the same state like one year ago and that made me sad ... that's it. I'm not the kind of bitchy person ...
Mine is out of the state too. It will probably be later this week before he is back.
Try to stay busy and visualize so that his physical absence isn't noticed
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GirlyGirl111 wrote:
Hey thereπ
You have to realize that there are so many people who don't get any contact at all. So of course you're going to sound ungrateful. It's ok that it's not like before but he didn't have to send anything and he called you yesterday. You're still working on this right? When you're in contact, it's even easier to focus on what is. Just focus on what you want and be grateful that you're in contact. There are many people who'd like to have that.
Heeey cutie
Yeah doesn't want to sound like a ***** though ... but I'm in a difficult situation eventhough we are in contact two weeks ago he told me he's dating someone so that's one point and these ups and downs are killing me. We cuddled on 23th December and the weekend after that he became distant again.
Oh and i forgot to say he called 2015 not 2016 lol. So I just wished he would call but he didn't... I guess I did just expect too much... idk
But yeah tbh for me it's even harder to not focus on the reality since I'm back in contact with him and as I'm falling back in my old behavior from time to time I'm pushing back as well.. but I'll try to be grateful to at least have contact ...
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Avaelle wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
mave wrote:
Soooooo ungrateful!!! I supposed had you not received any communication at all, you'd be equally bitching!!!
Seems like the only "bad" start to 2017 is your attitude and your perspective.Ouch that was pretty offensive .. I'm not bad I was just sad and missed him that's it... it's just recognizing that we aren't in the same state like one year ago and that made me sad ... that's it. I'm not the kind of bitchy person ...
Mine is out of the state too. It will probably be later this week before he is back.
Try to stay busy and visualize so that his physical absence isn't noticed
Guess that's a good idea.. thanks as always avaelle
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You're welcome.
I understand the frustration
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Avaelle wrote:
You're welcome.
I understand the frustration
Thanks at least someone just because someone is back in contact doesn't mean everything is suddenly back to perfect ...
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MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Hahaha you're awesome XD naaah this won't be that worse for me... I never really got something for valentine so that's okay I'll guess ^^
You're awesome too! It's OK to feel sad and frustrated about this, I was there once, just let yourself feel it. But you gotta remember that you're awesome too and it's just not in your repertoire to make him your raison d'etre.
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LOL .... guys the reason for my bad feelings is right ... he just told me he's falling in love with a girl. All of what I did for nothing I could cry my eyes out ...
Guess it's time to give up
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MadMoiselle87 wrote:
LOL .... guys the reason for my bad feelings is right ... he just told me he's falling in love with a girl. All of what I did for nothing I could cry my eyes out ...
Guess it's time to give up
Congratulations. Exactly as you expected and created it.
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Sanshi wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
LOL .... guys the reason for my bad feelings is right ... he just told me he's falling in love with a girl. All of what I did for nothing I could cry my eyes out ...
Guess it's time to give upCongratulations. Exactly as you expected and created it.
Thanks it's not like i already feel bad enough