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    12/22/2016 2:16 pm  #1

    Tumom
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    I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    With tears in my eyes I just feel it's time . Today he texted me , so hurtful . Not just leave me alone , but leave me the **** alone . Don't ever talk to me , text me , don't harass me !!
    I've done all the challenges, done all the mediating, listened to every video and nothing.
    He's still with her and wants nothing to do with me .
    Can I be happy with out him? Yes
    Do I think I'll ever talk to him ? No
    He's too mean and I doubt this will ever change . His words pierce me like a knife but I'm finally hearing him loud and clear .
    LEAVE ME ALONE..,
    I'm NEVER coming back 😢😢😢

     

    12/22/2016 2:24 pm  #2

    happygirl97
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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    It's not over.

    Give it TIME.
    Do RS, believe, Love yourself.
    Do not contact him and stay patient.
    You need to let go of the hurt. You can also choose to move on if it feels better for you but please now your situation is NOT hopeless  
    It can all be changed !

    She believed she could, so she did.
     

    12/22/2016 2:28 pm  #3

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    happygirl97 wrote:

    It's not over.

    Give it TIME.
    Do RS, believe, Love yourself.
    Do not contact him and stay patient.
    You need to let go of the hurt. You can also choose to move on if it feels better for you but please now your situation is NOT hopeless  
    It can all be changed !

    What is RS? I'm new and I don't know what that means.
    It just seems like it is . So many times he said LEAVE me alone , don't text , don't call, don't harass. He's with someone and the need for be being here is not there .
    I've failed at this . It seems it happens for everyone ... Just not me

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    12/22/2016 2:53 pm  #4

    YesIWILL
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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    Tumom, I'm going to say something that's probably going to hurt me. But I need you to know it's not impossible.

    I'm literally in the same position as you. I was even threatened with a restraining order. Yeah, that's harsh. She tells me to kill myself, that I'm a stranger to her, and that we will never be together, etc.

    But you know what? Being able to talk to the people on this forum have lifted my spirits so much! I've been seeing signs, which, whether I create them or not, prove LoA works.

    I can't say I can specifically help you, because I'm in the exact same boat and am still looking for answers myself. But what I can say to you is, don't give up. We're all in this together, and we're here for you. 

    We can all do this

    I'm sorry I can't write anything longer, I'm REALLY busy today. Watch your favorite movie! Grab a drink with friends (responsibly, of course). Watch a comedy! Do something you enjoy! 

    Just know you're not alone Find comfort in that fact. It helps me. And if others can get their ex's back despite any situation, so can we. 

     

    12/22/2016 3:03 pm  #5

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    YesIWILL wrote:

    Tumom, I'm going to say something that's probably going to hurt me. But I need you to know it's not impossible.

    I'm literally in the same position as you. I was even threatened with a restraining order. Yeah, that's harsh. She tells me to kill myself, that I'm a stranger to her, and that we will never be together, etc.

    But you know what? Being able to talk to the people on this forum have lifted my spirits so much! I've been seeing signs, which, whether I create them or not, prove LoA works.

    I can't say I can specifically help you, because I'm in the exact same boat and am still looking for answers myself. But what I can say to you is, don't give up. We're all in this together, and we're here for you. 

    We can all do this

    I'm sorry I can't write anything longer, I'm REALLY busy today. Watch your favorite movie! Grab a drink with friends (responsibly, of course). Watch a comedy! Do something you enjoy! 

    Just know you're not alone Find comfort in that fact. It helps me. And if others can get their ex's back despite any situation, so can we. 

    I so hope you are right . Right now I'm so low , Im can't even see my way out .
    It does help knowing I'm not alone . I definitely feel that way . The saying words will never hurt is so not true . His words cut so deep and they are so hurtful . It's a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone ,

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    12/22/2016 3:12 pm  #6

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    Not his words hurt, but what you think about them.

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

    12/22/2016 3:25 pm  #7

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    Sanshi wrote:

    Not his words hurt, but what you think about them.

    Sanshi, I don't understand what you mean .
    He said LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE
    YOURE PISSING ME OFF
    YOURE HARASSING ME
    They are hurtful , what should I be thinking of them other than what he's saying ?

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    12/22/2016 4:21 pm  #8

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=4802

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

    12/22/2016 5:28 pm  #9

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    Sanshi wrote:

    http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=4802

    I understand... But I stil feel so bad

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    12/22/2016 5:36 pm  #10

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    Re: I feel like giving up ... It's just not working

    Sure. Your emotions just show you the way, they don't walk for you.

    "Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

    Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
     

     

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