Correct me if I'm wrong.... But my understanding is this:
The reason Veronica suggests letting them come to you is because she wants you to know your power as a deliberate creator. She wants you to clearly intend that you will attract your guy/girl and trust that the process is working. So when they DO reach out, you will be well on your way to truly believing that manifesting a specific person CAN be done. And also, in reaching out, you might be signalling that you are insecure or worried, and needing a response to make yourself feel better- and LOA doesn't work that way. You have to be signalling that you've already got them,  hence no need to initiate anything.

In your case though, which is a little more like mine, the contact is already well and truly there. So it's a matter of communicating freely, with love and joy. If I am suddenly missing my guy because my vibration drops, I definitely do not initiate communication. But if I'm flying high vibrationally and feel inspired to love him openly, then I do. And it is received and reciprocated beautifully. The difference is this- when my vibration is high, im initiating communication because I just love to love my guy, and it feels wonderful to express that. It's unconditional and I'm genuinely not in it for any kind of reciprocity. BUT if my vibration has slipped and I'm feeling needy, I might reach out to him but I have an ulterior motive- I NEED a response, validation, love, particular words.. CONDITIONS! And then I've handed him my power and I am tied down waiting for his attention. It feels off. So I prefer to assume that all is magnificent, and most days I don't even feel the need to initiate anything. And he does.

love wrote:

Thank you for sharing Cherished.
It seems a lot like the situation I'm going through.
The only thing is that when I call him, he's unable to bring himself to talk when he hears my voice and hangs up. 
What a clown...

 
So focus on the day that you actually hear his voice on the other end, where he is telling you all the things you have wanted to hear 😘

Hi
It is good to let him come to you. This is a good thing for many reasons. Even if you are friends, you desire for him to put effort into the relationship. It FEELS good when people contact us because we know they did it out of their own desire of wanting to connect with us.

Second, you are learning your power. When you feel super bummed is going to be when you are feeling a lack of your power, so it is good not to contact in these states anyways. When you are feeling in your power, you cease to be attracted and begin to attract! 
You can create this! Start focusing on how you ATTRACT and do not need to chase anymore There is a huge energetic difference and others can feel it with out communication!

Blessings, 
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
http://julietdickinson.com

Spiritual Hustler wrote:

Hi


Second, you are learning your power. When you feel super bummed is going to be when you are feeling a lack of your power, so it is good not to contact in these states anyways. When you are feeling in your power, you cease to be attracted and begin to attract! 
You can create this! Start focusing on how you ATTRACT and do not need to chase anymore There is a huge energetic difference and others can feel it with out communication!

Blessings, 
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
http://julietdickinson.com

 
Hi Julie,  how do you focus on how to attract? And what more can we do to have our lover chase us?

Hi

Of course you want him back and desire a friendship with him! You can have both of those things and the LOA can easily align them for you. 

I think Veronica is right when she says do not contact him first. This allows you to become the attractor and step of of the role of the attracted. This process allows you to come back into your power and you will see the results of that power on energetic and physical levels. He will contact you, your job is to TRUST yourself and the greater plan of the Universe. Stay relaxed, and get excited!

Start visualizing him coming to you and opening up communication as a friend and a lover. Feel what it would feel like to be that powerful to have men flock to you! You are worhty of whatever you desire and you were given the ability to co-create your reality. Believe in yourself and keep up all the positive thoughts. You can do this!

Blessings, 
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
http://julietdickinson.com