I have a more straight forward, cut to the chase type of view, rather than optimistic, but this is because I've dealt with a number of f*ckboys and also some amazing men in my life

If you are looking for a relationship - it is always easy. Like, literally, it has never been hard. With everyone person that I've dated exclusively for longer than 6 months, within 2-3 weeks, I knew. They called me to talk. They took me out to dates. They NEVER talked about sex in the fear that it would put me off until I made it very obvious that it would not be and I'm okay with that. There was never an "exclusive" conversation, but the guy would introduce me to his friends, his parents, call me his girlfriend, etc. 

With the f*ckboys, it was always the same thing. "I want to have sex with you but I swear I'm not just looking for sex"... "I really like you, I'm just not ready for a commitment right now"... etc. Maybe someone else has had better luck, but all those guys I know, never changed. I check their facebooks once in a while, and they are still doing the same thing. Either have moved on to likes their 15th relationships or still single and partying all this time... and mind you, this is like 6 years later, not 3 months later. 

So my advice to you would be to decide what you want - the back and forth with this dude or a stable and happy relationship. If it's a relationship, let him know and move on with your life. If he really values you that much, he will not risk loosing you. If his shenanigans more important to him than having you leave his life whatever, then girl, this guy is really not that into you. 

But it is true that RS attract only sex with boy.. I have experience too that when I did RS so he was horny and he want only sex ... do exist another rs which attract a relationship?? Or rs is about attract sex?? sorry for my english

Thank you so much Laura. That's what I'm wanted to hear lol. It's quite interesting what wolf said in his posts. I have to admit before our relationship kind of stuff break he hasn't been my bf either. But we did everything like in a serious relationship. We meet us almost everyday, he paid for my dinner in restaurants, we were going to the movies, he even showed me a special place from his childhood and so on. He also slept at my place when he had to work the day after. He bought me some little presents and we always had an awesome time together. He never lied to me that isn't his character. We talked about the problem he couldn't commit to me a lot. It wasn't like he didn't want to more like he couldn't. He even cried about that as much as I did lol. But the problem was he was afraid to take this step and fully commit to me and I gave him several reasons not to do this. I was very jealous, get angry easily when he wanted to be by hisself, and always thought about what would happen if he left me. I hadn't a life anymore he was my life and this was so wrong. I know we would have a chance if I'm getting more chilled lol.

Sorry for the long text but I guess you need that background info. He isn't only a fuckboy we had a really strong connection. And for me there is a reason why he came back (of course of the 25 days challenge lol but still haha).

Beside that I'm doing lanie Stevens PW at him and isn't it pretty much about that? About changing someone to finally go the step to commit, or for a better relationship etc? I think so.