Ok well you're clearly vibing well because you got his attention and he made an action for you, he showed up. So you were doing well until you decided, like in the story of Fred (check out the Abraham video) that you were going to jump the gun to your end result instead of living in the moment. So his reaction wasn't to you, it was to the situation! You were doing well, you were hooking him, but you pulled the line before he bit down haha. 
Don't worry, this is gonna be fine, you just need to chill now and if you need to send him a text or whatever to say it's all cool between you and that you're actually fine with what he said and sorry for bringing it up and stuff, that's ok. Don't dive too deep though.To attract someone you have to create an atmosphere. When Cleopatra wanted to attract Julius Ceasar, she didn't say 'Hey Julius, wanna sleep with me in return for giving me back my kingdom?' No, she smuggled herself into his room in a carpet dressed in her best dress and wore make up and carefully seduced him by making him feel safe and in charge. She knew the power of creating an atmosphere, of creating excitement, mystery, sex appeal, desire.... So you have to realise that words mean very little. People say they will stay with a person forever at their wedding and get divorced 6 months later. Words are meaningless, it's FEELING that matters. You need to make a person feel a certain good feeling when they're around you and you need to keep making them feel that feeling for as long as you want them in your life. Basically, he wasn't feeling you enough to say the words you want to hear, but he can... Just treat this whole thing as if you're beginning from scratch and you just met a guy you liked on a train and now you want to see him again. You want to get to know him. You want to talk to him, be around him, see who he is. You have to be the girl who he wants to be around. Ignore him saying he doesn't want a relationship and start to see what he does want and build and build. Maybe he wants to go running with you. Maybe he wants to see a movie with you. Maybe he wants to go to an art show with you .... you have to make him feel that he's safe, that if he accepts an invitation to hang out with you, you're not going to bring up heavy stuff. No one wants that. People also like to feel that they're in control, he wants to decide himself about being in a relationship with you and he doesn't want to feel coerced or convinced into it. You just need to attract him through feeling and positive energy. 

Wow! First off can I just say I got chills reading your response! Second, just by seeing your username that in itself was anUNEXPECTED sign which I KNOW came from the universe too!! ( still in shock)

Thank you thank you thank you, for your words, it's like I attracted the right person to help me get out this FUNK! aha But you're completely right, I have to go out and enjoy life as I have been. It feels amazing and I know everyone feels my energy when I'm around because everyone who I've attracted are all fun and amazing friends and they all seem happy around me!

I am going to continue to attract my ex with my positivity and strong feelings!


Thank you once again! xo sending you love!

Yep Sanshi is very right, those who run fast, stumble