big_blue wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Thank you, you are amazing too.
Yes, you are well on your way and the progress you have made in the last weeks is amazing. I think a month ago, you wouldn't have commented on my post, right? I don't know, if you read it, but I even mentioned you namely in lemon's new thread yesterday, because it was really noticeable how much you have changed. You can be proud of yourself!

Aw, shucks. Ya making me blush. I love reading everything you post/reply/etc.!

Enough with this complimenting back and forth. https://media.giphy.com/media/1ZwxP362AfHby/giphy.gif
 

Sanshi wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Just out curiosity SanshiW, how have you progressed in your relationship. What was it like when you came here and what is it like now?

The short version is: no progress at all and you can stop reading here, if that's all that you want to know.

The long version is:
I came here and was an emotional wreck. I was emotional completely dependent on my ex. I started like everyone else. I told my story, I was miserable, desperate, I didn't talk about anything else. I discussed every little thing with friends and analysed everything he did. My thoughts evolved around him. 10 minutes not thinking about him was much. I did everything to get him back like visualising (I hated it) and doing RS in the middle of the night to be more effective. I was pathetic and nowhere near to happy or getting him back. The situation got worse.
Now, I don't want this guy anymore. I can't respect him. I've grown so much and he hasn't. I feel he can't give me much anymore and I link him to my past - and I don't want to go back to my past. Now I know my worth, I don't need anyone to feel worthy. I feel better now than most of the time I was with him, and I know that it wasn't his fault, but mine. I know now that no guy can make me happy and that I don't have to react to situations I don't like and that I don't have to talk about it. I'm confident. When I look in the mirror I see a beaufitul young woman who looks completely different than before, just because of the changed vibe. I feel emotionally free the first time in YEARS. I enjoy being on my own and don't longer need anyone who spends all his time with me, so that I can feel appreciated.
A few months ago, the other guy came into the picture and I replaced my ex with him and ran after him instead (I was again desperate and unhappy) - this time I realised how pathetic that was, but I did it anyway. No, I haven't heard from him by now, but I honestly don't care. If he makes contact, that's fine - let's see where it leads us. If he doesn't make contact, his loss, I can find a so much better guy. And the best thing is: I don't even feel the need to find another guy, because I'm enough: I don't need anybody to complete me.

I guess that's not what you wanted to hear and I didn't want to hear something like this a few months ago either, but now I'm SO glad that I got to this point. I feel so much better than before and this whole journey is just about feeling better. I feel like a whole different person.

This was really inspiring Sanshi most of us are so focused on getting the 'thing' that we don't realize the true opportunity in freeing yourself from the thing.

Our journeys are all very different but in essence we all want the same thing : to be happy. In that sense ; I think yours is a beautiful success story because you managed to find what everyone's actually looking for. Except they hope to find it through someone's loving validation - you managed to do that for yourself !

Superbly inspiring ma'm - Danke!

I want to share my manifestation stories of the last days with you.

I'm one of the people who have read sooo many things about LoA and have listened to sooo many videos, but who are too lazy to do the actual work. This was partly, because I didn't really understand what the actual work was. But now that I have a broader view on LoA there is no longer an excuse to not do the work. So I decided to stick to the processes that Abraham offers. I want to work on my point of attraction on every single topic and I got my first results:

I've always hated needing new clothes, because I had a specific thing in my head that I wanted and I never found the exact thing. It was frustrating. I was running through shops for hours and often came out without anything. I set the intension to work on this topic first, because it always makes me a little uncomfortable, but it's not such a big deal. And it seems that sometimes it's enough to set the intension to work on something to manifest the thing you wanted to work on. I used no technique, nevertheless I found around 10 new pieces within maybe 4 hours. That's a new record for me and I think with this experience, my vibration on this topic is cleaned up fully. It's easy to find beautiful, fitting clothes for little money.
Then I set the intension that a man would talk to me on the street. Within an hour it happened. I was out of alignment, so it wasn't really what I wanted (he "talked" to me via Google Translator, because we hadn't a mutual language). Even when the experience was more negative for me, I decided to appreciate my manifestation. Today, only 3 days later, I came out of the grocery store and a guy stopped me, told me that he already saw me a few times and wanted to get to know me. The last time, I talked with a guy on the street was in the beginning of 2015 and now two guys within 3 days!

The last one was just something little, but I appreciate these little LoA reminders, so I will share it anyway. Today, I thought about deleting my Linkin Park music, because I haven't listened to it in ages and the texts are depressing and far from empowering. But then I thought about this one song I used to like. A few hours later, a car drove by and I heard exactly this song from the car.

ShootingStar wrote:

In regards to your boy, I believe that you're naturally healing so you're losing the original dependency and heartache but if you did see him on the street, I think you would still get a giant flutter in your heart right now (panic or love who knows haha).

I believe I know what feeling you are talking about (I think it's more panic than love), but I don't think I would feel that way, if I met him. Yes, I would love him crawling back, but I think I wouldn't take him back. I made a list of my perfect guy and I'm soooo in love. He is so much better.

I have been very low the past days (so no flying high), but today is the first day that I feel way better. It's because I decided to attract a wonderful apartment for me. I'm still living with my ex and I want to get out of this situation. Until yesterday, I thought it were impossible for me to move out, but then I remembered that I'm a powerful creator and that nothing is impossible for me. And since I made the decision to move out and don't search for a flat mate instead, I feel soooooooo much better. Since yesterday, I have worked my way up the emotional scale from doubt to hopefulness to optimism to belief. I feel pretty good about this and I'm doing some Abe techniques on it. I'm sure my next success story is coming up very soon. I already found my perfect apartment, now I just have to line up with getting it. No big deal.

Today, something very interesting happened to me that made me think.
Just a little background story. In the past, I was a member of a few sites with picture ratings. Basically, you could give the pictures of people "grades" from 1 (bad) to 10 (pretty good). I'm more the type of girl who doesn't care so much how she looks. I don't were makeup, I don't like to present my boobs to get attention. Most pictures showed my face and because I mostly look ugly on pictures, if I try to smile, I didn't smile. The "grades" I got for those pictures where mostly between 5 and 6.
Now, the funny thing. Yesterday, I joined a dating website and uploaded a picture of me. Nearly the same as always: No boobs, just my head, but the difference was I was smiling and I was in alignment, when I took the pictures. I had three votes so far and it were three 10s.