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1 - Hisoneandonly
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Please help me please.
He promised to meet me at my house tonight. I've been waiting for hours. But nothing. I texted him, call him. He just shut off his phone. I saw friend's snapchat and I heard his voice. So I called these few friends. They all lied. I drive to his house. I got lost. I feel helpless. Even I called those friends and tell them I'm lost. They just don't care. At last I still make it to his house. I waited there. No one's home, so I checked on Snapchat again and saw all of these friends went to other friend's house. So I guess he's there. I called again. They fooled me again. He didn't show up too. I waited for 1 hour. I feel extremely sad.... I love him so much but how can he do this to me? All of my girl friends just ask me to have a breakup with him... I still love him. I want him to love me like before not like what's now... anyone please help...
- Ivy
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Re: Please help me please.
You love him for what?
If he didn't want to meet you, he should have told you straight. You're presenting yourself extremely weak, needy and desperate to him. You rushed to his house, followed on snapchat just to get his response but you know, guys don't response actually if they know you're forcing them to do so because you need their response.
This time is NOT RIGHT to talk to him if he & his friends are fooling you. RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST, SHOW YOUR PRIDE. DON'T BE AVAILABLE FOR HIM ALL THE TIME.
I will suggest Be in NO CONTACT until he comes back and apologized to you for his behaviour. Till then visualize him taking care of you, loving you unconditionally. You can start it with RS'ng him but for the time being, STICK WITH NON-SEXUAL RS, after few days you can start intense one.
πWherever you go, go with all your HEART.π
- Hisoneandonly
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What if this is the end? He's leaving to England to study abroad and im still staying in msia.He's leaving in 3 days.. Is it possible for us again? What if he feels nothing when I have no contact with himοΌ
And shy, thanks for you reply 
I can't sleep as it's already 2.48am... your reply would help a lot!
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Thread Starter- Ivy
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I can understand that,I've also gone through it...we all experience that. You had better not to worry about HOW & WHEN.
Everything will fall at the right place when you change your vibes.
Don't think about him much - it seems tough to get rid of his thoughts, thoughts of losing him but actually you're going to win him as well as learn to be happy, independent without him just like ME.
You can create anything you want. Forget him what he is as other members say...create new version of him. See him in your mind as you want to see him - desiring you only. Focus only on lovely him. It doesn't matter whether he's going to England or another world as long as you keep vibrating with loving thoughts of him, love him in your mind, see him respecting you and desiring you until he accepts....he will experience all this love for you.
just stop reacting to his actions because most of the time other person expects it from us...if you won't react to him as he is expecting he will wonder about it.
πWherever you go, go with all your HEART.π
- Hisoneandonly
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Hi shy and love yourself,
Thanks for all your advice. You all gave me hope. Thanks. He called this morning. He said those friends were helping him to have a surprise farewell party. He don't even know they're going to his house. His phone went dead at the same time. Then when he got home he just straightly go sleep. But few of his friends text him and scolded him because my friends and I keep on finding them for him. He scolded me and say that I let him has no friends now and sound like wanted to break up with me (didn't say it out but act like that). I want to talk things over so I went over his house again. He just leave. He said he don't wanna talk bout it anymore. I don't think this situation looks good.I keep on blaming myself. I said sorry to him and his friends... he just don't care. Keep saying "I don't wanna talk , you create too much problems.".... what should i do?
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Thread Starter- MrsPlaha
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LoveYourself wrote:
Why did you go to his house after he scolded you? We advised you to go no contact on him. If he rings or texts you then ignore the phone or text him back and say that you won't be treated like that and then ignore the phone.
Remember as well this is an LOA forum, not a relationship forum.
No one deserves to be treated like that, it is your personal right
Totally agree with loveyourself.
Love yourself before you love others π
- Hisoneandonly
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Why did you go to his house after he scolded you? We advised you to go no contact on him. If he rings or texts you then ignore the phone or text him back and say that you won't be treated like that and then ignore the phone.
Remember as well this is an LOA forum, not a relationship forum.
No one deserves to be treated like that, it is your personal right
Β I'm sorry, I saw the NC post after I go to his house. And I know this is a LOA forum so I wanted to use LOA to change our relationship..
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Thread Starter- Ivy
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Me too agree.
But I guess he is not telling truth..just an excuse to get rid of. I don't want to hurt you but please don't let him insult yourself, don't rush after him, don't call him up when he doesn't want to talk. Give him space...leave him for some days until he feels the need for you.
Make yourself better & show him how you want to be treated by him.
You want to use Loa...visualize him desiring you, see him with you and RS him.
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- Unveiled Miracles
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Re: Please help me please.
Hi
I am sorry that this man stood you up. It is important to start viewing yourself as someone who doesnt tolerate this kind of behavior. Start seeing yourself as someone who is important and worthy of commitment, adoration and romance. When this person acts this way towards you do you notice how it causes you to lose your power? You need to rememeber that no one can take your power with our your permission. Do not throw your self-esteem out the window because someone stood you up. Instead, take some deep moments of reflection and remember how amazing, beautiful and worthy of love you are.
You are worthy of love. The Universe only treats us as we treat ourselves. If you stand up for yourself and start respecting yourself more, so will your outer relationships. You will be shocked how fast some people can change when we change on the inside.Β
Blessings,Β
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
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- Unveiled Miracles
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Yes! I am was reminding myself when I wrote that to you So beautiful how one person's healing allows another to heal
The entire Universe lives inside of you, why play small?Β
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