Stepping away will work wonders for you. I did it and I was so glad I did. Also, just because people say things on this forum doesn't mean they are true.

People do not reflect your vibe contrary to what most ardent New Agers believe here. There is not a shred of evidence that people are a direct reflection of your internal beliefs. They have oversimplified reality and have severely distorted the law of attraction. Other people are just as real as you are.

It's the whole "if a tree falls in a forest and no one is around, does it still make a sound?". Of course it does.

In fact the "law" of attraction should not even be considered a law. Gravity is a law, even evolution is a "theory". At best the "law" of attraction should be called the "theory of attraction". I would call it a hypothesis myself. It's so internal that it's hard to "prove" it in a scientific sense.

Develop self confidence and self esteem, pretty yourself up, and hit the gym. You will then see that YOU create what you want with respect to YOU by your thoughts that LEAD to actions. The actions change your reality. Sure prayer, feeling good, and thinking positive do help and can change the world around you but I'm a firm believer that we aren'the Jedi Knights influencing people or things with our mind. Plus, who want to carry such a burden of trying to make your own life good? I'd much rather go with the flow and just enjoy life without worrying about a so called vibration. Idk about some of you, but trying to control your own life is a nightmare. I'd rather rely on God for my strength and well being.

Practicality over New Age BS anyday for me. People disagree with me but that's fine. Enjoy your life and work hard for what you want. Leave that ex behind in your past and create a beautiful future for yourself.

Last edited by Craigd88 (7/02/2016 12:21 pm)

lol Craig, it is funny you say this on a forum mainly designed to help bring exes back...

op, i feel you deeply as i have been there myself. i am happy you are in a better place now. hold on to that, you will be just fine. promise 

xoxoxo

I didn't start this thread to be witnessed to or to be talked out of believing in LOA. I started this thread bc I wanted to share with everyone here as to where I stand. This is a LOA forum. PERIOD. Not a church.

Craigd88 wrote:

I'm trying to get you out of the bullshit you're stuck in. Your are literally praying and asking from something that science has confirmed began to exist. The Universe has no power in and of itself. It's apart of creation as we are.

Don't get an attitude with me. I'm not one pining after someone wasting 6 months of my life. You want to continue to believe in this magic of controlling your reality and controlling people to get what you want, go for it but remember...you have already wasting 6 months of your life with this.

I suggest you move away from it andand be a normal human being. You are not a God nor do you control everything in your life. Sorry to burst your bubble.

I could care less what others have said about this. They are more likely wrong anyway. They couldn't possibly consider being wrong. The delusion has sunk too deep. Most here are spending so much time doing techniques, stressing over vibes, and reading LOA material that they could literally be diagnosed as OCD or crazy. They aren't living. They are stuck on someone so much that they resort to mind control to get that person back. How ridiculous.

And I agree with you as far as this being hyped up as some sort of magical practice that give you control over everything and everyone that walks the planet. I agree. I don't want to control my guy. That IS NOT what I want. I DO love him, and I think the world of him. But with saying that.. Everytime I've tried to rs or anything remotely close, I have had the tug on my heart telling me that this is not right. I either love him or I don't.. And if I do, trying to control him with "mind control" is a pretty crappy way of trying to prove to myself, him or "God"/"universe" that I do really in fact love him. I don't want to control the world, that is WAYYY too much responsibility, that I know isn't supposed to be resting on my shoulders. BUT at the same time.. I would like the opportunity to be able to chose for myself. I would like another chance.. And I've prayed to God way too much to even count.

Craigd88 wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

Craigd88 wrote:

I'm trying to get you out of the bullshit you're stuck in. Your are literally praying and asking from something that science has confirmed began to exist. The Universe has no power in and of itself. It's apart of creation as we are.

Don't get an attitude with me. I'm not one pining after someone wasting 6 months of my life. You want to continue to believe in this magic of controlling your reality and controlling people to get what you want, go for it but remember...you have already wasting 6 months of your life with this.

I suggest you move away from it andand be a normal human being. You are not a God nor do you control everything in your life. Sorry to burst your bubble.

I could care less what others have said about this. They are more likely wrong anyway. They couldn't possibly consider being wrong. The delusion has sunk too deep. Most here are spending so much time doing techniques, stressing over vibes, and reading LOA material that they could literally be diagnosed as OCD or crazy. They aren't living. They are stuck on someone so much that they resort to mind control to get that person back. How ridiculous.

And I agree with you as far as this being hyped up as some sort of magical practice that give you control over everything and everyone that walks the planet. I agree. I don't want to control my guy. That IS NOT what I want. I DO love him, and I think the world of him. But with saying that.. Everytime I've tried to rs or anything remotely close, I have had the tug on my heart telling me that this is not right. I either love him or I don't.. And if I do, trying to control him with "mind control" is a pretty crappy way of trying to prove to myself, him or "God"/"universe" that I do really in fact love him. I don't want to control the world, that is WAYYY too much responsibility, that I know isn't supposed to be resting on my shoulders. BUT at the same time.. I would like the opportunity to be able to chose for myself. I would like another chance.. And I've prayed to God way too much to even count.

That's much better   Listen to your inside. It's usually right.

I think we all would like another chance, but is it really for our best interest or better yet: their best interest? If you love him as you say, what if another woman gives him all he needs and is truly better for him. Would you want that for him?

I tend to look at life through a window instead of a mirror. Putting others before yourself is so much more satisfying that being concerned with only yourself and being narcissistic.

Treat others how you want to be treated. The best way to live.

Dude, I get what you are getting at. I really do. That doesn't change anything for me tho. I still want my guy back. I still want the opportunity. Ain't no other woman alive able to give him more or better for him than I am and can. PERIOD.