I think self confidence is really important too! (and plus you're an amazing athlete, and getting compliments by others too right?)

you just have to tell yourself "what she does doesn't matter, who she's responding to doesn't matter, but I AM CLEARLY THE BEST MAN SHE COULD EVER BE WITH HAHAHAHA just look at my sexy athletic body."

and plus, she's only responding, most likely to boost her inner ego, it's really nothing. so don't worry.

when my boyfriend of 3 years left me 2 months ago, within the same week he was already flirting with new girls, even went on DATES with them...was I sad? yeah a little, but my mindset was stronger than that, I was like "well he can do whatever the hell he wants, he can see whoever he wants, HELL EVEN IF HE IS SLEEPING WITH GIRLS, I don't careeeeeeeeee. I'm still clearly the best girl for him. those girls ain't even CLOSE to my level. They're not even QUALIFIED to be my rivals."

That's how firm I was, even if the situation looked hopeless (like c'mon going on dates with several new girls already? after 3 long serious years of relationship?)

then you know what happened? a week ago, his best friend told me "I just wanna tell you this...actually...there are absolutely no girls in his life. NOBODY. No girls are even CLOSE to your level. He still thinks about you."

I truly believe in LoA and our minds create reality.
It's because of my confidence and how strong my mindset was believing I am THE ONE for him, even if the reality was that he was going out with so many girls, it didn't affect me or my belief. At the end, none of the girls matter to him, there are no girls in his life that could be as important as me in his mind : )

sorry for the long comment, but I just wanna say, YOU ARE WORTH EVERYTHING!
You are the BEST guy in her whole entire life, you just have to believe it.
Tell yourself, none of those guys matter.
DID THEY FUXXING WIN A COMPETITION? no they didn't lol

Be confident and BELIEVE. Have faith  

Hope this helps a little.

Susiewoo wrote:

Once I realised that what I was observing didn't matter a hoot, it really helped.  Just realise you're witnessing the 'past in motion' before you.  But you can create something new by focussing on it and affirming it as the current reality and then it has to come to pass.

The past in motion..I absolutely love that. <3

Yes, I have an adive indeed. I was a magnificent observer myself, so I know what I'm talking about. I'm still in the learning process but the basis is there.
First of all, you have to really be aware of the fact that reality is a reflection. Try to always take a step back from a situation and be aware that's a reflection. If you have a strong emotional response and start thinking obsessive about the situation, then you are still observing. But when you reflect your behaviour and your thoughts, you can recognize those situations later and learn for the next time.
Next thing is, you have to think about what you want. When you see something what you don't like, search for the opposite of it that you would like, and think about that. When you walk around, don't think about random stuff but think deliberately. Maybe make a list of things you like to think about and everytime you find your thoughts out of control, think of a subject from the list - can be anything..I love to think about the perfection of nature for example.
Practice it all the time, not just with your girl. Trust me, within a few days doing this, I became SO much happier.
Sure, there are situations you have to face, but don't do it more than necessary. If you have to do something you hate, do it as quick as possible. If you can't do it right now, write it down, so that you don't have to remember it again and again.
It's very unfamiliar in the beginning, but it's so worth it