Ok, first of all why is it important how long it takes? If someone would say you get a million dollar/euro/pound/whatever is your currency would you care if it comes this month or in six? Probably not, you would be happy and expectant. You would live your life now and everytime you would think of the money you would be happy about it. So why can't you be happy and expectant when it comes to your girl? I guess I know why. You say you don't have any doubt. I say you have (I just posted about this: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=3152). Why else would you worry about the time frame?

Next thing I don't understand is why do you want a message from her or a like on a post? If you would use LoA properly and already live in your desired reality you wouldn't give much for a text, don't you think? If you are in a happy relationship with her she texts you all the time. You wouldn't even have the desire for the text because you get a few every day or - even better - you don't need a text because you see her in person.

I personally believe that the time factor is completely in your hands (I posted about this a while ago as well: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=2923). But to have control over it you have to be on a completely different vibration. The vibe I get from you now is...let's say..okay in the best case but you are still far from the "get your ex back vibe". So concentrate on that first. And remember the more you concentrate on the time factor the longer it will take. So maybe that helps to take the focus off it.

#_alexandr_# wrote:

Thank you so much, Those posts you wrote are really amazing. Just a couple questions.  If i am supposed to act as if i am living in the reality i want at this moment would that require to stop the visualizations, the writing of my affirmations, and stop me trying to meet new women as well because i wouldn't be doing any of these if i was with her. 

It depends. Do you enjoy writing affirmations and visualise? Does it raise your vibration and makes you happy? Then do it as much as you like. But if you do it only to get her back then drop it. That's not the way to go.
I think acting as if is more about the feeling. I would prefer to say feeling as if. Maybe it helps people to make space in their wardrobe but I think the most important thing is the feeling. You don't have to believe blindly in a reality you can't see. You don't see it (yet) but you can feel it right now and this feeling is the energy that finally manifests it into reality.
You can meet other women if you feel good by doing so. Everything that brings your vibration up is good.

#_alexandr_# wrote:

I honestly love visualizing it does make me very happy.  I try and do it when i start feeling a little down sometimes too. But absolutely enjoy it when going to bed it's relaxing and puts me in a good state.  Although sometimes i find myself tearing up a little but more out of happiness and joyful feelings not out of sadness so not sure if that is still interpreted as a negative vibration.  Sometimes I am just really tired and just feel content so I don't do it. The writing of affirmation makes me happy too I don't feel like any of it is a chore.  

I think crying out of happiness is one of the highest vibrations you can achieve. So don't worry about that. Just don't resist and let it happen.

#_alexandr_# wrote:

ok, You know what after reading your posts you're absolutely correct about me just being " just ok".  I was really bad after the breakup and very sad, depressed and cried a lot. I couldn't stop thinking of her every second of every day. For maybe the last month I've been a lot better I rarely have those moments where I just ball out uncontrollably. I did though today just because I really miss her not because I think i won't be with her if that makes sense or is possible. lol. I still truly believe I will be with her and see her again. 
Obviously having the feeling of missing her is not good any tips on what to do when i get those feelings , it is very hard to just switch it off and think of something else.  I feel like i just got to get that moment over with and just feel better when im done.  I have never felt this way about anyone i have ever met , never cried over anyone this much. The most comparable was maybe a week of sadness over someone else.  This has been going on for almost 6 months and i dont feel any less in love with her.  She was truly special to me, I thought we connected so well from the very beginning she always told me how much she trusted and how comfortable she was with me and that no one ever treated her as good as I did. I know i put out so much loving vibes out to her with no negative feelings towards her at all. I dont really know where I was going with this lol but basically I just feel like something was really different with this girl .  I know you have to stay in a positive happy vibration but it is extremely hard to be that way 100% of the time.  Things always happen that reminds me of her.
 
Are they're any readings that you can suggest to read? I feel better and motivated when I read success stories or words of encouragement, and inspiration related to what I'm going through.  

When you miss her accept it and shift your focus to something else. You say that's hard but it's only hard because your aren't used to do it. It's a muscle. You don't wonder why you can't make 50 push-ups after you were lying in bed sick for a year, right? It's the same here. See it as sports. It always is hard in the beginning and if you don't train it remains hard.

If you have problems to stay positive all the time it has two reasons:
First you don't understand/fully believe in LoA -> it can't manifest.
Second your focus still is on your now reality -> it can't manifest.

Work on both. You will eliminate two more reasons why it can't come and aditionally it becomes easier to be happy.

I can recommend reading all of Nevilles Goddards books and lectures. It's very good stuff. But don't only read, experience. Make experiments. You have to trust in LoA and for that you have to experience it in your life.

As long as you need success stories to feel better you don't fully believe. Success stories are great but in my experience I read it, it made me happy and then I thought "But my story is completely different" or "For her it manifested within 3 months, I'm trying for 5 now and nothing has happened yet" or "It was just coincidence" or "It worked for her, but it maybe won't work for me". It's best if you can get to the point where you don't need confirmation from the outside world because you have it all within you.