I have found that you should never worry weather you are doing anything right or wrong as long as you feel right whilst doing it. I script when I feel great and give it my all, when I feel low or have negatives on my mind I keep away from it. Its the same when visualizing or sending love or Lanie's method. Just think to yourself that you KNOW that it is working. 

Have no fear - just let go of it and become strong mentally!! And believe that whatever you do is working and you are on the right path to reuniting. No matter what is currently happening. This can take time though. I get the odd fear throughout the day but get rid of it as fast I can.

I know having no fear is not easy, we were all brought up to have fear from the moment we were born. Just think to yourself, whats the worst that could happen? Your alive now without you ex in your life. That is the biggest gift of all. You should only ever rely on yourself to make you happy. If you get back together then it is a bonus!! 

Focus on yourself, swap negative thoughts for positive ones as soon as you can in any way you can. 

Most of all, simply love yourself!!! do anything and everything to make you happy while you are not together. Prove to yourself that you can live happily by yourself. 

Feel free to PM me but this is how I see everything. And I am stronger then ever now. And happy on my own. I KNOW that good things are coming to me. It is a great feeling.  

Hope this helped.