Hey everybody,
 
So I was pretty active on this forum a few months ago, but decided to take a break (which I’ll get to more later).
 
If you aren’t familiar with my story go back and read my posts. Basically I wanted to attract a guy I had been seeing for a few months and when things fell apart I turned to LOA.
 
And I’m here to say that LOA has completely changed my life.
 
After things fell apart I was needy, desperate, depressed, blah blah blah. And when I look at myself now, I am a COMPLETELY different person.
 
I haven’t attracted my person back, but LOA has seriously given me so much more than I ever would’ve imagined having a year ago.
 
About a month ago I finally finished the novel I was working on and it felt great! I had worked on it for so long and there were times I really struggled just to write. I was so upset about my person and just life in general that I couldn’t push myself to write. I procrastinated, I made excuses, I couldn’t focus, I got distracted. Writing was supposed to be my number one and instead it was like number ten or eleven. All this other stupid **** got in the way.
 
But finally a few months ago I buckled down and just lost myself again in my book. I fell in love with writing and the creative way of the world again. It was amazing!
 
I stopped reading up about LOA all the time.            As important as it is to continue engaging with the vast wealth of knowledge and LOA practitioners out there, it does reach a point where you get obsessive. At least I did. And you have to just take a step back and start practicing instead of reading up and theorizing. I remember the days I couldn’t get through a single day without reading up something LOA-related. Now I go weeks forgetting to check back on this forum.
 
Again, not putting down this forum, I just was getting too obsessive and needed to remove myself for a little to clear my head. Now depressive thoughts about person don’t rule my life, and neither do obsessive ones about LOA.
 
I’ve made a complete 180 and it’s all thanks to LOA and so many great people I’ve met on this forum. In addition to finishing my book, I’m happier than I’ve ever been. I’m a master of my thoughts, calmer, sharper, and more creative than I’ve ever been. It’s like my brain was jump-started. No longer do I fear waking up in the morning because of all the thoughts that are going to plague me.
 
This time last year I was on five pills. Now I’m on zero.
 
I used to be so neurotic and weird when it came to dating. I’d never feel good enough, or obsess and sulk. Now I have a whole buffet of guys and girls lining up to be with me. It’s freaking insane!
 
I hang out with friends all the time. I go out and have fun. I’m always going on dates. I’ve met so many incredible people. Literally, no longer do I feel like “nobody’s out there”. There’s so many great people out there you just have to have the right mindset to attract them.
 
I don’t care anymore if my person comes back or not. Why would I when I have so many wonderful things to focus on now? I’m not going to focus on one person who treated me bad when I literally have legions of people I can now attract into my life. I have choices and options and it feels incredible!
 
I don’t really have any techniques that helped me other than the ones that thousands of others have posted about on these forums. Just have patience with yourself and things will work out.
 
Maybe this isn’t the typical success story of “ex back” but who cares—why be mad about that when I’m feeling so great and attracting all these awesome things into my life? Not every day is perfect, I still have setbacks, but overall things are grand.
 
Just want to say that I’ll be around the forum a little more now, to help out whenever I can. But to anyone reading this: you CAN do this. You CAN be happy on your own. Getting your specific person back is great and all, but getting yourself back is even better.
 
And thank you to everyone on this great forum who has helped me out along the way. Big things are to come for us all!