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So I saw a doctor for my mental health concerns and she said to cut off all contact, including the friendship. It's not what I want to hear but she is right.
I've also removed Instagram off my phon braise I don't want to go through the new girls posts with him. I want him back and I'm trying to move on. I'm going the LOA way. I'm just going out with friends, studying, and I even have a new date. At this point am I doing the right things? I feel that going on a date with someone else is telling the Universe that I don't want him back and that I'm ready to move on. That's further from the truth because I want him back. I also feel that this new date will help me detach because it'll show me there's other fish in the sea. I really like this new guy but I still love my old guy so much. I feel each day I'm getting better. I no longer feel suicidal and I'm keeping busy. Slowly the pain is going away but at times it's all I can think about.
I want to do this the right way. I want him back when we are both ready. How do I get our vibrations to align again?
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Hi all,
Had a good date yesterday and we even kissed. I think we will try it out.
Still want ex back but I guess I should enjoy this date. To some extent I think it'll help with letting go to go with the New guy. What do you think? At this point I'm looking to get out and have fun.
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Well I think I'll take it slow with new guy. If something comes out of it that's even better why not? But I'll take it slow for now.
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Be aware that you're probably rebounding BUT I found my first love and the person I had the longest relationship with and the person I'm here to attract back by rebounding with him ....I went on a date and then I initiated hooking up and just before we did I remember saying 'just to be clear...I don't want you to be my boyfriend, I'm just getting over someone' ...and I was trying to get back with that other person, but here I am, five years later, the original person means less than nothing to me and the latter became the person I first fell in love with <3 haha
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Oh I'm fully aware I'm rebounding. This guy is moving too fast too so I have suspicions. I'm just going to go with the flow at this point lol.
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