EVERYBODY can learn from this brilliant post of Vera's-

You need to read the truth about reality creation because it seems that sugar-coated advice are being ignored.

Where you are now: too much resistance, too much attachment to whatever your guy does and too much attachment to the outcome; also, it seems that you don't have control over your situation and everything that happens to you. I also don't see any self-love based on your posts.

Where you need to be: be in that state of "not caring" (this cannot be faked btw), and being 100% OK with not being with your guy, loving yourself more, and not going in circles. You can only achieve this with subconscious re-programming and that is when you commit to visualizing and focusing only on you and him being together and not entertaining thoughts that contradict what you want.

I know you probably don't like what I just typed, but you need to know where I THINK you are right now exactly based on your energy and what you've been writing all this time.

My turning point was when a friend told me that I had absolutely no control over my life and then challenged me to be mentally tough. After that, my life became better than ever.

UNLESS you apply what you learned, and commit once and for all to filter what comes in your mind, you will continue to go in circles. MENTAL DISCIPLINE is the only skill that you need to master because once you cease to be a slave to your thoughts, you will have immediate control of yourself and whatever happens to you.

You simply cannot change your vibrations without changing your thoughts because every thought is energy and energy vibrates at certain frequencies depending on the quality of your thoughts.

The fact that you're easily affected by EVERY ACTION or INACTION of your guy means you're assigning meanings, labels, and reasons for what is otherwise NEUTRAL. Yes, him not texting you back is a neutral thing, but as soon as you give meaning to him not texting you back (like maybe he doesn't really like you, or he has someone else), then him not texting you back becomes a negative experience. Your mind likes to assign labels and meanings to situations that should have been neutral. Don't be lazy when it comes to controlling your mind. Control it at all times.

While I don't condemn you for getting into an FWB relationship with your guy, I have to say this:

The moment you allow yourself to be in a situation that doesn't reflect your true desire, you are going AGAINST your true nature of being a powerful creator. Instead of being a master of your life, you become a slave of your mind, of other people, and of circumstances.

Also, IMO, nobody wins in an FWB relationship. It is mentally and physically draining. As a creator, you need to preserve all your energies, especially your sexual energy because this is very powerful in helping you achieve what you want.  You also are not really loving yourself if you are allowing yourself to be in a situation where you can be emotionally, physically, and mentally drained almost everyday.

I used to be mentally lazy, but that all changed when a friend, who is a very successful entrepreneur, told me that unless I make a commitment to have the discipline that's required to deliberately create my ideal life, I will never create my ideal life. This means I will not have the outcomes that I want.

So my questions to you are: how committed are you in changing your situation? What necessary steps will you take to achieve your desired situation? What activities do you do on a daily basis that help you achieve your desired situation? Are you doing Veronica's 25-day challenge?

Last edited by Cherished (3/03/2016 9:49 pm)