When you can hold steady in your own worth, other people simply can't upset you as much. Try to remember that everyone EVERYONE only ever wants love. They too were once a beautiful, innocent child who simply wanted love and trusted with all of their heart. Their misalignment has come from years of hurt and fear. If you can understand that their behaviour has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with their fear, you can't really stay upset with them. You feel empathy instead.

Same answer. There's only love and fear. And if you can maintain your alignment in love, you simply won't attract those kinds of people into your experience anymore. It's your focus upon them and your lowered vibration that attracts them into your experience. Raise your vibe, and always come from a place of love. Not fear.

dynamochick2210 wrote:

thanks for the amazing posts Cherished!  i find this one especially touching:

Cherished wrote:

When you can hold steady in your own worth, other people simply can't upset you as much. Try to remember that everyone EVERYONE only ever wants love. They too were once a beautiful, innocent child who simply wanted love and trusted with all of their heart. Their misalignment has come from years of hurt and fear. If you can understand that their behaviour has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with their fear, you can't really stay upset with them. You feel empathy instead.

i've always been (or been told i am) a really nice person but in my biggest pain dealing with heartbreak, i could be short-tempered and horrid sometimes, not myself... and it's given me more empathy, when i can see others are being mean or horrible i realise that they are probably experiencing pain or have had many bad experiences in their life and simply don't know how to be happy. 

i almost have tears reading this post Cherished as it resonates powerfully, all of us are on the same path but at different stages of finding ourselves and our true worth. hitler, stalin, and all the bad guys of history - and terrorists today - were or are just looking for some escape from their own fear, hurt, coldness, emptiness. also it is said that those who are awful to others do not love themselves. they hate themselves, and i know from experience that is a terrible place to be. i believe there are no evil people, just people who are misguided and do evil things.

so let's help each other reach alignment and also see the many misaligned people in the world as healing  the first post is infinitely useful too, what an important reminder to float gracefully back up to love  spread the good vibes friends!

 Amen 💖

People who are in alignment are utterly immune to brainwashing. There's only ever one answer. Find your alignment. Let others worry about their own alignment. The best friend you can possibly be to someone.. is a friend who is firmly in alignment.

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