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Trying to Ignore Current Reality
Good morning all! Good to see there is a new LOA forum. Thanks Veronica.
I've been working with Veronica for awhile. She is awesome!
My challenge is not paying attention to former partner's (FP) current attachment (ca). They have been dating a year...and it is hard to think it will end after that time. For the first few months, I thought it was a rebound. FP and I were together 6 years; I broke up with him 1 1/2 ago; he tried to reconcile for six months; then I tired to reconcile and he refused. As recently as last week he said he still loves and misses me but is scared to return to the relationship due to our past challenges etc.and is not willing to break-up with ca. I am trying very hard not to contact him and I hope he contacts me. The longest we have gone with no contact is 6 weeks. I am dating others as opportunities arise but damn, I miss him and I want the ca gone!!!!!!!!
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Re: Trying to Ignore Current Reality
It may help to remember that your current reality is all created from the past you. Therefore, instead of "trying" to ignore it just realize that it is made up of a creation of your past thoughts. Start to get excited about your thoughts you are choosing right now because soon your reality will reflect those thoughts!
That is why it is important to not validate reality by what we see in our external circumstances becaues it was created by a less conscious version of us. Everyday we wake up and expand our consciousness a little or a lot depending on what you are choosing to think and practice in your life. Choose the thoughts that will create the future you desire right now. Start to see the future in your minds eye and ignore your past creations if they are not resonating with you anymore 
It is that simple! You can do this
Happy Creating!
Julie-LOA/Happiness Coach
The entire Universe lives inside of you, why play small?
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Thank you Aprodite. I needed to hear this today. I made the mistake of looking on social media and it is a mood killer for sure to see photos of them, etc. Lately, I've been really good about not looking but I blew it and need to go back to no looking. It makes things seem impossible.
Thank you and keep us updated on your manifesting!
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Spiritual Hustler (love the name!), thank you. It is hard to completely wrap my mind around the idea that I created a negative thing for myself...but yes, new thoughts...new reality.
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Re: Trying to Ignore Current Reality
raindrop2 wrote:
Thank you Aprodite. I needed to hear this today. I made the mistake of looking on social media and it is a mood killer for sure to see photos of them, etc. Lately, I've been really good about not looking but I blew it and need to go back to no looking. It makes things seem impossible.
Thank you and keep us updated on your manifesting!
Hi raindrop2! Don't worry about the other girl. I was in a similar situation but Veronica helped me ignore the other girl. And, I swear 6 weeks after I completely started ignoring that other girls presence, she was gone!! I used to look at his fb abd see her liking all his pictures, she even liked everything is patents put up. She was clearly driving me crazy. But Veronica told me that she doesn't mean anything and honestly now she is gone.
So you can do it too! Don't look at any social networking sites. I know it's hard to resist the temptation but it won't take you anywhere.
Good luck!!
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Re: Trying to Ignore Current Reality
Living the LOA life is definitely a change, and you really need to take a leap of faith at first.. Because you have to basically pretend you have what you already desire. But if you can actually put all your faith into the processes and just keep going, regardless of what you see as happening in reality-you WILL change your reality. It works like magic! And I know it's difficult to accept it as true, but it IS true 😊 If you will just put out of your mind the things you don't want in your reality, and focus only on what you DO want, you will see this reflected back to you in time.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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Thanks Blessedck and Cherished.
I feel like a teenager with this stuff...she has now "friended" his entire family on FB. I can't stand it. All day today I was feeling fine..even thinking like maybe I don't want him back after this...as I still see the images of them together. And the holiday hits this weekend and it feels pretty lonely. I have plans and it'll be fine but it is pretty hard to think in terms of having him when it has been over a year...and frankly, should I really want someone who says they still me love but are scared to return and continues to date someone else? I don't know...I think the whole social media thing really throws me. If it didn't exist, I could think whatever I want...he is sitting home missing him, he is with his kids, etc. but instead it is in my face that he is with her and publiclly for the whole world to witness. How do you ever take that back and return it to just us..we are together...yet, everyone has seen them together frequently. It is out there permantly. If we should reconcile, it feels tarnished now.
I don't know. Just discouraged I guess. Tomorrow is another day and I just wish I was better at putting on my big girl pants and moving on like it seems like the rest of the world is capable of doing. Boo.
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Re: Trying to Ignore Current Reality
hi raindrop2, are you feeling better now?
i suffer similar situation with you, therefore i deleted my facebook and instagram app, i dont want to see anything that make me sad. i think you should do the same too! after deleting these apps, i find myself having more faith that my lover is coming back! i visualize day and night! i also read more books, i especially read loa books.
my wallpaper of my phone is a picture of my lover and i. very often, i look at the photo and whisper: i love you (my lover's name)
hope this helps <4
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Blueberry, thanks. I am feeling better. I spent yesterday with my family and am feeling more positive.
I did deactivite my fb and pinterest (the only 2 I use) for a week and that helped and then I went back on it. As long as I'm not on it, I don't make the effort to check. I may need to do that again. I just need to get my former's partner's current attachment out of my mind and then I'm ok.
We will all get there!
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