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Need a shift in my thoughtd! Help
Hi. I dont know what wrong with me. Recently I had 2 dreams that my guy is in a relationship wit another girl and I woke up feeling sad and just now for the past hour or so I cant seem to get the image of him with another girl out of my head.
I really dont want to attract a new girl into his life by visualising him with someone else instead of me.
Why is this happening? How can i shift my thoughts?
I really hope its not a sign that he is with someone else now.
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Re: Need a shift in my thoughtd! Help
I just had the same thing happen! I checked in with Veronica and what she said makes total sense. She said dreams are just random thoughts and fears. They do not have real meaning and that we do NOT have to give in to the fear.
I focused all day on releasing this fear and getting back to a good space with my ex. Then I took a nap and had a dream he wanted me back. You do not have to let this fear have power of you. Just say no thank you and go back to what feels good 
Blessings,
Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
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Re: Need a shift in my thoughtd! Help
Its so difficult to remove these thoughts and get back to thinking about us. it makes me feel down and my mind keeps replaying it over and over again.
I tried to change my focus but that didnt work.
I will try harder to think about us instead now to cheer myself up. Is there Anything else I can do?
Thanks x
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Re: Need a shift in my thoughtd! Help
Try not to view it as difficult, view it as simple. Choose to feel good now. Those thoughts are not making you feel good! Do not betray yourself and happiness by obsessing, they are just thoughts! They have no power over you unless you give them that power. A happy thought is WAY more powerful than a fearful one You have the strength to turn this around
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Julie- Love and Happiness Coach
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