You are always a vibrational match to what is happening in your life. You ARE. It's just the way we roll! If you can make absolute sense of that, you realise that the props in your life have and always will behave the way in which you expect them to deep down. To be cheated on- which I was, you have to have some deep-seated fear of being cheated on. Your vibration must match that experience somehow. Perhaps you fear abandonment. Perhaps your self-worth is low and you put others before yourself.. When you realise that you simply unknowingly attracted aspects from people in your life, you can forgive both them and yourself. And you can move forward with confidence and clarity that YOU are in control. That you are worthy of such better behaviour, and you will GET THAT. It all comes back to self-love. Every time. When you can genuinely love yourself unconditionally, you simply KNOW that people will respect and adore you. And things like cheating are no longer even considered. Therefore the experience won't manifest again.