faithwithoutdoubt wrote:

unfortunately,i did not end up with the man i was involved with but found a better man instead who hAppens to be who I want to attract back into my life and still trying to get back into that happy feelings while doing the visualization.

I am confident that in no time i will be in that happy place again and to have my love back.I let go and let God/Universe/Source do the rest.

 If you manifested it once, then you can do it again. :-)
 

Allgood wrote:

Debbie wrote:

Well try to not be too hard on yourself about what you are feeling, but the thing you need to understand about being impatient is that really, when you feel that way, what you are doing is expressing lack, and when you feel lack you just manifest more and more lack.

One thing I notice here is that the words you have written are about what you feel is going wrong, plus some of your worries and fears. Focusing on that is simply not going to get you what you want, because the Universe brings you not what you want or don't want, but what you focus on. It is always that way, without exception. And the good thing about knowing this is that you can now take steps to control what you focus on so that you can really get what you want in life.

I'd go to YouTube and watch some of Veronica Isles videos because she really does explain very well how we can zero in on what we do want rather than what we don't want, and then concentrate only on that. 

Well said Debbie, I guess it's all about retraining your thoughts also. Bad thoughts can become a habit or even an addictive. Taking any positive steps to eliminate these thoughts is a huge step forward.

Ok it can sound difficult but when you persist which I am at present it becomes so much easier.

I'm so greatful for all you fantastic people

Yes that's it! It's about retraining your thoughts, and it's kind of a question of disciplining yourself at first. I'm really having to work at that now myself, too. What you said here has made me remember something my mom did once. She went through a stage in her life when she was feeling continually upset and depressed. But then one day she simply decided that she wasn't going to live like that anymore and she just watched her thoughts and disciplined herself to change the old dialogue that she was used to. She didn't use LoA but it was a similar idea and she became so much more positive and happy in her life.
 

Thank you Veronica.

Really good articles. I remember once on another loa forum complaining about some issue I was going through and how a member of my family was treating me rather horribly, and the answer someone gave me was not with words: it was instead a picture of a mirror. That stuck with me somehow.

That's so beautiful, Cherished. I will go through my day remembering that!